What other kinks do you associate with BB/CB?

[BC]

Hey everybody!

I'm curious about what other kinks everyone has that are in line with, or adjacent to ballbusting.  Obviously many guys here are into feet and foot worship, which makes sense, but what other kinks do you find are related, however tangentially, to a good ol' shot to the nuts?

I enjoy being busted by my partner now, but discovered my kink much earlier in life.  It started when I saw nutshots on TV, in movies, and finally in school.  Those "in the wild" experiences tied it in my mind to a leveling of the playing field for women, and the weakness of men, so I formed a fetish for humiliation.  Seeing the mocking victor, holding her crotch and teasing the big, strong man about his pain was a vital part of it for me, and to this day hearing a threat mocking my weakness sets me off.

With partners however, power play and dominance aspects opened up different doors, and CFNM and bondage became part of our play, handing over control to these gorgeous women that I trusted enough not to break my toys when I couldn't defend myself.  I hated any sort of restraints or bondage until I felt that freedom with my first long term partner.  As a switch, it also allowed some of my partners to signal that they wanted to be disciplined, by acting bratty and catching me off guard, one of my favorite games to this day, and probably how most of my busts happen.

What other kinks do you link with BB (or CB) and why?

[volcan51]

foot fetish, mixed fighting, karate girls.

[BC]

Did your foot fetish develop first or ballbusting?  I'm always curious about the relationship between the two since I never developed a foot fetish.  I'm of the opinion that, while I'm not really into feet, it makes ballbusting much easier if you have some.

[Jenoo]

Quite similar, how I feel.

I do not know which came first, but I was always interested in pain as a part of my arousal. I also had a fetish for lingerie, up to the level, that I better check out an underwear webshop than any kind of porn. With my first girlfriend, I discovered, that I enjoyed nutshots, and dived into ballbusting (sadly we broke up before any serious advancement in actually doing it).

In my mind, ballbusting is highly linked with humiliation play, femdom, and liking lingerie and/or sexy clothes more than naked women, also adds a similar vibe as the CFNM you mentioned.

Even though I like humiliation, not doing it somewhat consensual is a big no for me. By "somewhat" I meant when somebody is into it, but caught by surprise.

[BC]

The link with humiliation is obvious.  A big, strong man brought to a quivering mess by a single smack from a little woman.  Given the societal and physical implications, it makes complete sense.  Same sort of thing with femdom.  Although for me, bb is the preeminent kink and femdom is more of a little spice, the crossover makes complete sense, given the inherent power shift of having an on/off switch dangling between your legs.

Lingerie is interesting, because it seems as though there's more vulnerability for her.  If you're naked and she's in a dress or sweats, there's that clear delineation between the powerful one and the one who's about to get his nuts smoked, whether she's dressed up or just lounging.  In lingerie, it feels like a more private thing.  There's not that line you feel when a leather bound Domme that stands above you, it's more equitable and intimate in a way.  Sweeter.

I agree about consent re: as a kink.  Obviously many women on this site have a relationship with busting that is flavored by self defense and the feelings that arise from those situations.  And while many guys here developed this interest by seeing or receiving non-consensual busts, myself included, it is best enjoyed, imho, consensually.

[Jenoo]

The humiliation might be obvious, but I am no "big strong man". I have a height of a woman, even my wife is taller than me by a few centimeters. I am a conformist tough, I can adopt to almost any community and environment, and can live as a Spartan. Maybe my kink is coming from the urge to push the situation until I can no longer feel comfortable, in an environment where I still feel safe.

[BC]

Fair.  I mean in the general sense that men, on average, are larger and more physically imposing than women, and society tends to place roles on men and women that reflect that.  Subverting those beliefs with a kick to the balls and flipping the roles of tough guy to whimpering guy seems to imbue a nutshot with humiliation.

[Need 2 B Kneed]

Foot-fetish for me as well, and with that also nylons/stockings/pantyhose and sexy socks.

Recently (maybe as part of the humiliation of being busted?), also developed a cuckolding fetish....

[BC]

That's interesting about cuckolding.  The connection with humiliation makes total sense, and given the fluid, intertwining nature of sexuality, it seems like a natural development.  Do you explore it alongside ballbusting, or is it a separate kink?  That is, do you only bring in cuckolding after being busted, or is it a something that developed that you explore separately?

[Need 2 B Kneed]

The cuckolding remains a fantasy, and a playrole when visiting dommes...

I like the combination of a ballbusting session including foot-fetish/-worship, teasing with their stockinged feet, and cuckolding-fantasy. A favorite scenario is when the domme acts my dominant wife or girlfriend, who is sexily dressed up for at good fucking session with her bull/boyfriend, and wants me well busted before she leaves...humiliating me for my little useless dick and infertile balls that are only good for training her kicks and knees. Then i can spend the evening at home nursing my balls, thinking of her and the pleasure she is having... :o)

The humiliation aspect in that is just...hot i think. 

[BC]

Sounds like a fun scene!