It may have started as a joke, but maybe you should make that your new policy, never let a man inside without busting his balls at least once.  If a girl told me that, I would find it super hot.  

I need to have a word privately,Could you please get back to me on ( mrs.ericaw1@gmail.com) Thanks.

Hi Maria,

Great stories,  particularly the one about the guy on the dating app.  It is always great when it is the woman who is taking the initiative to bust and makes it clear that she is doing it for her own enjoyment,  rather than just playing along with male fantasies.