finding a busting partner

[Josh]

Hey gang....want to ask a seemingly simple question. How and where can a guy find a willing bust buddy female? I have been single for over a year now via post return from Italy all of 2019. Not knowing where I will be relocating to (or not) pending job prospects I have going now (and COVID19 lock down) has put my dating game on back burner big time ever since I got back. I dont even see the point in using dating apps right now since no can meet up in person anyway. Plus I am not looking to date them, just get them to partake in at least...ballbusting me....and ideally some cbusting for me as well. Anyway....in my 15 years of being into bb and cb, I have not once found a women or place to seek such women (beyond doms) to partake in this with me. Logic would say, have your gf do it or get a gf and ask her....I agree, but if you dont have a gf nor plan/can go out and find a gf anytime soon....what is one left to work with?

Welcome all ideas from men and women alike.

[Donald Veracrow]

In my career on this site I was kicked by 18 different women, many of them multiple times on multiple occasions. The trick is... Just ask. Lol

Use dating sites to make it easier than asking randoms in populated places. Randoms was how i started out but I had to evolve that as I got a little older and more popular oj this site haha.

Just go for it and ask them. You'll be surprised how many of them are down. Dont be surprised if it aint always free but it often is

[Chris Alphun]

How do you ask on dating sites? Let’s say you match with someone. Do you immediately ask them as they think you’re joking. Or do you try to build a friendship first so they take your serious?

[Franco]

Also you can test the water. When a girl you chat with asks you how you are doing, tell her "I have been better" or something. Not all girls but most of them will ask you what happened. Then you can tell her it's a little embarassing and if she says that it's okay, you can tell her anything from "I bet one of my friend that she wouldn't make me fall by kicking me in the balls... I guess I underestimated her" or "I was play fighting a friend of mine and as I was winning, she ended up kicking me in the balls" etc... Then you see her reaction. If she's like "Oh my god she's so cool! I like her! :D" you might have a better chance of her being susceptible to hit you in the balls than if she's like "damn you poor baby! She's not nice! :c". If you want to be a little more sure of your chances, you can also make other things up in the process. One of the funniest thing I'd do would be making it seem like I'm an innocent victim in the beginning, and end up giving details that made me deserve it more little by little. Another great indicator of her possible interest is stating that you received more than one hit and seeing if she still thinks it's cool. Most girls will be like "I'm supportive to the girls!" so they will often say that every guy deserves a hit once in a while, and if you were asking for trouble (for exemple by taking her phone up in the air and mocking her height) you deserved it. But most girls who aren't into ballbusting will feel bad for you if you say you took 2 or 3 hits. Some wont, and these are easier to "convert". Also, you can have a little discussion going on like that and try waiting for like 1 week to tell a similar story, with the same girl is better. If she is curious, she will often ask things like "What? Again?" and you can tell her it happens moderately often when you get on the bad side of you friend. Most likely she will ask why you keep seeing this girl if she hurts you so much, and you can tell her things like "But I still like her!" you can even try "It's hard to say but, we have been having this kind of relationship for a long time and I think I kind of began liking it?".

Some girls might still freak out at this point, but most of the time if she thinks you developped this fetish because a girl kicked you kind of often she might see you less as a pervert and empathize more with you. Girls have varying "turning points", and some will never do it because they simply are too kind and wouldn't want to hurt a fly. Anyway, that's basically one of the successfulest way I've introduced girls to this fetish.

Some might say "this is bad because it is lying and blablabla...". But honestly, if she doesn't show any interest in the matter, you can still talk friendly with her without the risk of her thinking you are weird, and if she does show interest, you can eventually tell her the truth and I'm about sure if she has fun ballbusting you, she wont mind that in order to "turn her" you had to make up a friend of yours hitting you. She might however be sad that she wont be able to double you with your imaginary friend.

(If the girl is womeone you see irl, instead of telling her you are feeling unwell, you can also just walk funny and grimace like you are unconfortable, but I wouldn't advise it on people who don't know how to act or be consistent in their acting.