What's your preferred style/scenario?

[DJ]

When you think about ballbusting (either giving or receiving), what is your preferred situation?:

• Consensual
  • This would be where both parties expect and anticipate the bust at that moment.
• Semi-Consensual
  • This would be where both parties are fully open to busting, but it happens in an unexpected way such as a punch when the guy isn't paying attention.
• Non-Consensual
  • This would be where only one party is interested in the bust, such as a self-defense scenario.

I'd expect that most people participate in consensual/semi-consensual busting, though I'd guess that plenty of people have fantasies of non-consensual busts. Just curious to hear what interests you, what you prefer to do with your partner, etc.

For me personally, all my busting is entirely in the consensual space (most often as part of foreplay/sex). I think I'd enjoy the semi-consensual stuff- it might be fun to get woken up with a punch to the nuts, right? Then again, I don't know how well I'd handle it. Guess that's the risk! lol.

(No judgments, though please don't encourage things like "I harass women until they get fed up and kick me" since that's not cool in real life.)

[Elizabeth]

I'd say I am in the semi-consensual category. When sparring, it is understood that groin kicks can happen, but it is still a surprise if you receive one.

[Berkey]

In real life, I'd say semi-consensual or consensual. But in fiction I really enjoy non-consensual, albeit not self-defense scenarios. Basically I like when a girl uses ballbusting as stress relief, as a way of getting revenge, as a way of humiliating a guy, or to show her dominance. In particular, I really enjoy reading stories where a guy is super arrogant, maybe even misogynistic, and a girl is finally fed up enough that she teaches him a lesson.

[Vil_villano]

Hello!

I think it's a very interesting proposal!

I would be of the second option. Being surprised by an attack that catches me by surprise or that has overcome my tactics and defense.

It is a terrible mistake. But I like that feeling of being surprised by a failure in my tactics or defense. As a duel of ingenuity where my tactical intelligence has not been sufficiently predictive.

[NakedFighter3D]

I've only practicing with consensual and semi-consensual bust, but I found the idea of non-consensual bust extremely hot. And I wish to be kicked by a person who's intention is to make me suffer in the situation out of sexual context.

[Lexeme]

I've negotiated for semi-consensual in my relationships when a partner is comfortable with it. It's a nice way to play out fantasies of receiving non-consensual busts. So I guess it's really consensual, uh, consensual non-consent.

Receiving non-consensual without any actions on my part is hot only if I am into the person who is doing it which is why it stays in the fantasy category

I have been revenge busted by play partners a couple times, and those were really hot experiences, though once, I found it more upsetting than hot. It depends on the context. Consensual, really, is just as good esp if a partner is pushing my limits