Why women prefer one kick VS men preferring multiple kicks

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

I am not speaking for all men or women but there seems to be a big difference on how we indulge in this ballbusting fetish. Whenever I speak to the gals about BB almost none of them are into doing multiple hits to a guys balls. You ladies just want to give ONE SOLID HAAARD hit to the balls and see him squirm. To be honest I love this too but most of us guys always wonder … "well would you kick him again and again" The answer you gals usually give us is "HELL NO!!!" Actually for a while it bothered me that BB women are generally hostile about the multiple hits. Don't laugh but sometimes I get the sense when you suggest it to the gals they look at you like you are some kind of BB extremist pervert hahaha. 

A Woman's Perspective

But then i started to realize something… the majority of the women into BB are into it not because of sexual reasons, but mainly because these ladies had the need to kick, knee or punch guys in the balls to protect herself or keep some dude out of her personal space… Ballbusting is an instantaneous thing when it happens, sometimes its so lightning fast that you ladies don't really think about it till later. It makes sense why you don't remember the shoes you were wearing or what his balls felt like in that instant. I think we as men fantasize in our minds that you ladies plan these ball busting attacks on guys for your own sexual pleasure. I think we as men misunderstand your connection to ballbusting thinking you see it from our point of view which is PURLY SEXUAL, and we get very frustrated when many of you gals are not as much into the fantasy & intensity aspect of BB as much as we are, again I'm not speaking for all men.

Guys, the reason why women like to do ONE HAAARD hit, may vary for each gal but the most obvious is the fact that she catches the guy off guard and literally stops him in his tracks (and preferably in the company of many onlookers); She thrives in the fact that she gives the guy such enormous pain that he is humiliated beyond belief when he writhes uncontrollably and he is physically unable to do anything about it at that moment. I TOTALLY GET IT... I GET IT!!!! YES!!! Some guys are complete jerks and they need to be put in their place. It is a complete thrill for her when she gets to assert herself in this way when she has been pressured to protect her private space. So fellas i think BB is more about power and taking control as a person and lesser about sexual control for some of these ladies. Now ladies you can prove me wrong, but this is just my assessment. 

A Man's Perspective

Ladies, Its a fact that a guy's  balls are the core of his sexuality… Ladies your foot, knee or hand are not the core of your sexuality. I mean you may get turned on when you hit our balls but, lets face it, its not your private area being traumatized or stimulated at that very moment. So ladies when you say we are OBSESSIVE try to be a little more understanding about our physiological difference. Ladies imagine someone stimulating your private area in some tantric taboo erotic way at the same time forcing you into violent fits of biological and emotional trauma… I think you ladies too would appear to be both terribly desirous (obsessive) as well. Also, Ladies the same thrill you get by kicking us once and dropping us … well, we get that thrill plus the added physical stimulation that goes along with it. After the pain subsides we guys want to experience that high again and again and again. Let me pose it this way... ladies how would you feel if you were in the heat of foreplay with your guy... he was stimulating your privates and got his satisfaction but left you hanging??? 

Lets reverse the roles… a man is physically able to orgasm once in a specific time frame, but a woman can have multiple orgasms. Ladies, we are not obsessing about BB when we ask for specific details or desire multiple hits... we we are trying to achieve multiple thrills similar to how you ladies seek to achieve multiple orgasms. My point is ladies your one thrill is enough to satisfy YOU gals but for many of us guys we desire multiple thrills and details to be satisfied. HaHa I probably sound jaded but trust me I'm not, just speaking from observation.

At any rate, I think this is a great topic to explore because I really think none of us fully comprehend the basics of each others fetish and it is my hope we can all be more understanding and constructive towards one another. I'm sure some of this could be articulated better over time, but, I kinda just came up with this theory this morning.

- Dvhour (Site Owner)

[Beaten13]

Really interesting topic. Thanks dvhour for bringing it up. Not an easy one to answer for that matter. I generally agree with what you say, but I think other possibilities are in play. Being dropped with one hard blow gives the oportunity for women to see the effects of their hit. To see us rolling around in agony at their feet, I think (ladies, please correct me if I'm wrong, constructive criticism welcomed), is a great part of their turn on. That doesn't require repeated hits, what's more we could not stand repeated full force hits. Part of their amusement is their capacity to completely enable us by abusing what is considered the core of our masculinity, so to speak, and the power that means,  They feel empowered when society has historically denied them that power. As for us guys, I agree with you, Even if it's roughly, we are still being stimulated on our sexual organs. That, plus the fact that the humiliation derived from being reduced to a shivering mess by a female attack to the center of our sexuality ends up being a major turn on. But many light blows give us both the oportunity to repeated stimilation and the sense of being at the mercy of someone who, at any time, can decide to increase the strength of the attack and finish us, so we're kept with our adrenaline pumping up in anticipation.

I think there are probably many other factors included, and we must never forget everyone is his own world, and a generel perspective will always be to blunt, but I thought I could share this few thoughts with all of you.

[Emma Eat Yo Balls]

While the idea of one, hard kick being able to get a guy rolling is appealing and fun from a power aspect, from a fun aspect i've always loved the idea of being able to kick my man over and over. We have sometimes seen how many kicks it's taken for me to get him on the floor, or I will keep going til I decide to stop. This is beyond even just kicking - it's also with grabbing, pulling etc. I find there is a lot of humor in being able to not just hit him the one time, but to push that humiliation further by doing it again once the damage is done - i.e. adding insult to injury. It kind of surprises me that so many women don't like the idea of taking more than one hit at a guy. I mean, it's funny to see him taken down by something like a hit in the balls, why not enjoy that over and over?

[1xv9elh3lnxig]

Great post..Its a subject worth exploring. Thanks for taking the time. I think its pretty close to most peoples way for thinking.
Chris

[Chris A]

I like to build up to the harder hits.  Yesterday, my wife threw a game controller that hit me right in  the balls.  She laughed and said she was sorry.  That was too much at once and unexpected.  Its a whole other thing when you are turned on and expect it.  I think she likes it better to see my making noises while holding myself. 

 

What about punching, kicking, biting and bending a hard cock along with the BB?  Are there women into that? I like it when she grabs my erection and bends it like she is going to break it and slaps my balls.  She gets into it sometimes and I am sore for days...