Why do you risk it ?

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Questions: Why do you want your balls busted? What makes it worth putting them on the line ? What's makes you want to take another kick even though you fear it? What makes it ok? What If you lost one, what would you do? Would you keep doing it if you had only one?
Thoughts? :)

[Brad]

I partly enjoy the pain, and partly enjoy pleasing a woman who's into this. It's 50-50. I don't have much of an answer for the rest of your questions because I simply don't know.

Getting my balls busted is kinda like getting drunk. I always swear I will never do it again when I have to suffer the consequences, but once I recover I look forward to doing it again lol.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Well then think about them and try and give an answer, you will be surprised what you can learn from your self when you answer a question you don't think you have an answer to.

[nick]

So true. This is what inspired me to try and answer your questions.

[Smoo]

One thing to keep in mind, we don't all like the full force hits.  I know I prefer the light-medium busts so the session can be really drawn out.  I also prefer the hand work over knees and kicks - easier to control but also less likely to get overwhelming.  Even my bb buddy doesnt quite like the full force hits.  She's nervous of causing me damage and going TOO far past my limits with them. 

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

I agree with Smoo, the full force hard hits are not all that fun in real life, in fantasy, sure. In real life, I like more of a sensual bust, where she's turned on, and anticipating a climactic sexual release together. I do however, like the idea of a fairly hard finishing move right at the orgasm point. Again, the idea of being permanently damaged might be fun for fantasy, but not in reality. It is interesting though, how a blow that would floor me, for several minutes will be a much more minor pain level when I am aroused! My wife has said it is similar with her breasts, where she also enjoys rough treatment when aroused, that would normally hurt much worse if it just happened not aroused. I've never even been bruised by our sessions, so I guess we must not get very extreme. Well, I guess I can't say that, I've been bruised where she will bite me, and scratch marks elsewhere, so yeah, but I don't bruise easily, so that may be a factor as well. Permanent damage is not a big turn on for me. Some guys like castration, etc, and that's their thing. I don't get it, I mean, sure, and play act like she's gonna cut 'em off or something, I can understand, but the real idea of actually going through with it, not for me! There's a guy who used to post on here that did lose one from his wife, and he still does it, however a bit more gently.. Surprised you have not damaged your husband as hard as you seem to go on him!

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Honestly I don't go hard on him all the time, though I have gone pretty hard. It's rare to go full force, like smoo said medium is better because you really draw it out, and make it last longer. My busting does tend to get harder as I get into it, especially towards the end. After doing It for so long, I have learned to gauge were his pain level is at, and what his limit is. Hard kicks don't have to be full force, there is a difference. I can kick him pretty hard in the nuts, without doing it as hard as I can.

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

I think you have the real key to the satisfaction level of the man. He wants to be pushed to his limits, what you describe is exactly the kind of thing I like for my wife to do. She's a bit too timid, honestly. Part of me is glad of that, since I appreciate the fact that she loves me, and doesn't want to permanently damage me. But, then there's that part where it would be a big thrill not knowing if she really cares at all, and the rush of the panic, mixed with the sexual charge. There is where the play acting comes in, and a big thrill can be had safely I think, and a man's limits can be pushed without permanently damaging anyone. Kinda like bungee jumping, the ideal length of the bungee, is where you almost touch the ground before it snaps you back up. And that nagging question of whether you put too much chord in, and whther you are going to go splat at the bottom is part of that thrill. I compare that to a fun ballbusting experience. The other aspect that for me anyways is the draw, is the predatory hunger for me. Hunger to take me, whether I want to or not, type thing. 

I always remember when I was younger  how the girls would complain about cat calls, and guys feeling them up, etc. Men would LOVE that!! At least I would, having women being that hungry for me. I like it when my wife pushes me up against a wall, grabs me firmly, and kisses me passionately with a squeeze. To me, at that point, it isn't so much the damage in my mind that makes it a thrill, but the idea that she wants me so bad, that she's overcome with animalistic desire. LOVE THAT! :) Unfortunately, she's still a bit timid, and doesn't do this often, especially with the kids around. She's self conscious, and feels dumb when she does stuff like that she says.. To me, this is where a good ball buster emerges, when they can be confident enough to just take her man.. 

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

TELL HER SHE ISNT DUMB! It's sexy as Fuck! That is exactly were a good buster emerges, confidence to take him, confident to hurt him. Do everything you can to erase that from her mind. What's the point of fucking If you can't be an animal? Sorry to put it so bluntly.

[Johnny BB Goode]

I think you said it right in your second statement above Melinda: "It's sexy as FUCK!", that's why!
There is a very unique, hot, sexy chemistry that happens between myself and a woman when she passionately and aggressively wants to take me by the balls or just give it to me in the balls. It's sexy as fuck when she wants to squeeze, twist, punch, knee, or kick me and really enjoys herself while doing it and enjoys watching my reactions and my expressions of fear and/or sex-pain on my face. It's very hot and erotic for me when a woman smiles, giggles, or gives a moan over her enjoyment of the sexy pain she is inducing in me.

As for the risk factor; most sex partners have never given me full force kicks and therefore I don't think there is a huge risk factor involved. That is not to say that I haven't been kicked very hard or just overall abused hard. I think that most sex partners or gf's never intend on ruining or damaging their man, although I'm sure there are sexy thoughts of it going through their minds. The only concern of risk might be in a one night stand where she might want to leave me with a "Black Widow" bust. LOL I suppose a "bust and leave" could be up there in that risky catagory.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Well not necessarily, I think there is always a huge risk, accidents do happen. I kick pretty hard sometimes and never had a problem but who's to say I don't nail one just right and poof it's gone, not on purpose of course. I find it interesting that so many skirt around that fact or don't discuss it with their partner. It's one that is avoided or brushed off like it won't ever happen. That's why I'm asking. Me and hubby have discussed it on occasion, and the conclusion is I promised that I will never promise not to break his balls. I don't make promises I might not be able to keep. It would not be on purpose but fact is I love busting his balls, and I don't see myself stopping within the next year, so he is sort of at risk. It only has to happen once, and once it's gone, it's gone. Now fast forward past the part where you won't think it will happen, all the way to you sitting in the ER one nut less and your gf or partner is freaking out. Think of it from that perspective. Not trying to scare anyone or discourage anyone, I just want people to think with an open mind, it could end up being you or my husband or anyone else , someone is going to find themselves in that situation. Possible foresight is always handy :)

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Of course I promise not to do it on purpose, though it's not very comforting to him lol.

[Johnny BB Goode]

OK, you're right Melinda.  ANYTHING CAN happen.  There is a risk in everything we do:  driving a car, flying, even walking in public.  So, yes, I'll agree that balls are always at accidental risk during most bb situations.  Any past or present bb of which I've been involved has always been intended to be "safe" so I guess my initial answer was in that light.  But accidents do happen.

I had once discussed this with an ex gf.  We were on the phone and she was describing to me the way in which she wanted to bust my balls on the next time we were to be together.  It was very harsh and I asked her "What if you break one of my nuts?", to which she answered, "well, I guess that's your problem and not mine.".  Then she added, "It can happen you know?".  In part, her answer was to tease me and scare me but in part it was an honest comment inferring that it CAN happen.  We discussed her comment a few times afterward and she did say that it can happen and that we both should be prepared for that if we are to keep playing as we were.  She was athletic and mentioned that just as in any sport, there is always a risk of breaking bones or tearing ligaments to the point of never being able to play again.

With that in mind, I can see how you can never promise not to break your husband's balls.  It CAN happen and I supposed that balls are always at risk at any time that they are to be squeezed, tugged, kicked or beaten on by whatever means. 

If it WERE to happen?   I don't quite know what I'd do as far as continuing bb?  I'll always have this fetish but perhaps I'd lessen the amount of it or do more cautious and controlled self busting during "fantasy time" if there was only one ball left.  Again, that one ball would still be at risk I supposed.  Then again, it would be at risk from just about anything too; bicycle crash, sports injury, or any other accident.  So, what is one to do????

 

It's still "sexy as fuck!"    ;)