Guy Asks For Advice After His Girlfriend Becomes Obsessed With Ballbusting

[Alan S]

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https://percolately.com/mikewc/guy-advice-girlfriend-hit-testicles/...

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“So Jenna is a beautiful 26 year old woman and I’m a chubby 28 year old bloke. I really love Jenna, she’s the woman of my life. We’ve known each other for over 6 years and we’ve been in a relationship for almost about 2 years now.”

“When Jenna entered my life, she changed it forever. She’s been with me through all the ups and downs in my life and has always been pushing me and supporting me. She’s the best woman that I’ve ever met and I feel that she’s a blessing sent to me by God himself.”

“So as it says in the title, Jenna has a weird obsession with my testicles…an obsession where she likes to hit it and watch my reaction.”

“I’m going to tell you a thing that she did to me a long time back. At that time, we both were in a relationship for about two or three months and we had sex about a few times then. So…after I was finished (probably a few seconds later), she said nothing, she just tightened her fist and gave me a punch in the balls!”

“Now Jenna is no one punch man, but I was knocked out after that single punch. My reaction was just like anyone else who would get hit in the balls, I held my crotch and squirmed in agony. She probably watched me and laughed the first few minutes, but the pain didn’t go down for a while and I continued squirming in pain, so she probably felt guilty, so she apologized.”

“After a while, when I recovered, I asked her why she did it and she told me that she really wanted to do it from a long time and that she found my reaction very cute. Let me tell you, it wasn’t that cute for me. She told me that she would never do it again, so I forgave her (I actually don’t remember having a choice).”

“And she’s kept that word till today and has never ‘punched’ me the balls ever since. She only ‘taps’ it and ‘slaps’ it… a few times a day.”

“I’ve noticed that whenever she taps my balls and I don’t react in a painful way, she does it again until I feel pain and hold my crotch and squirm. That’s the reason why I act like it hurts even when sometimes it doesn’t.”

“And I’ve noticed that she controls herself whenever she wants to ‘tap’ me down there. She wants to go for a full hard punch, but she knows that it hurts me, so she controls herself and just slaps it lightly.”

“What I’ve also notice is that whenever I hold my crotch and react with pain, she gets really turned on for some reason. I’ve been in other relationships before and I’ve never seen a woman who got turned on by that, I found it really weird.”

And our original poster, or OP, who is 100% not into this new idea is really struggling with how to balance his love for Jenna with her strange affinity.

“Speaking about this logically, this might just be a fantasy. A very weird and painful one, but a fantasy nonetheless. Probably watching me react to one of her actions like that, it turns her on.”

“It’s isn’t her mistake at all, everyone has their own fantasies, and it’s totally normal. I wouldn’t call her a bad person or a mentally ill person just because she likes to see me hold my crotch with pain. I would like to call it her fantasy or her kink.”

“Now you guys may have your own opinions and you may think different, but this is what I think of this situation.”

“Is it painful for me? Oh hell yes.”

“Would I like her to stop doing it forever? Also yes, but do I think something is wrong with her for doing this? No.”

“That’s just my take. Let me know what your take is. Thanks for reading all this. Hope you have a good day or whatever.”

And it turns out OP really did have a talk with his girlfriend…but it did not go at all the way he’d hoped.

“I couldn’t just start the conversation, I thought that I should maybe wait till Jenna hits me there first to start the conversation, so I lied down on my bed, spread my legs wide and I was waiting for Jenna to hit me in the balls (what am I doing with my life?).”

“Obviously, I didn’t have to wait for long, she came from the kitchen and lied down on the bed next to me and gave me a nice, tight slap on the balls. Usually she stares at me and enjoys watching my reaction, so she did the same today as well.”

“It definitely hurt, but I recovered from it as fast as I could and looked back at her and told her that we needed to talk. I told Jenna calmly how much it hurts me every time she does something like that and told her how much I don’t like it and how much I want her to stop doing it.”

“I also tried to explain to her the pain that I experience every time she hits me (multiple times a day) and I also opened a link that was posted in the comments of my previous post by a fellow Redditor. That post was about how my testicles can be damaged.”

“I showed her the link and read out the entire article to her thinking that she would understand it, but no, her reaction was something else. Her reaction surprised me and also offended me at the same time.”

“She didn’t take me or my words seriously at all! As I was reading the article and telling her how painful it was, she was laughing at me and saying things like ‘aww, really? That’s so interesting’.”

And then she did it again.

“I usually don’t get offended by anything, but this was a serious topic for me and I was expecting a serious reply from her, so when she replied to me that way, I got offended and a little pissed. I told her ‘this is the last time I’ll be telling you this, please stop hitting me,’ for which she replied with ‘aww, okay’ and immediately hit my balls again and laughed at me.”

And then her reaction was incredibly strange.

“Again, I’m not a person who gets angry very easily. Me and Jenna have known each other for over 6 years and I bet she’s never seen me angry. Yesterday, after her reaction, I got angry and for the first time ever, I spoke to her in an angry tone. I told her that if she doesn’t stop doing it, I would leave her.”

“Hearing me say that and seeing me angry for the first time ever finally made Jenna think and now she knew that I was being serious and this was a serious conversation. I once again told her how painful it was for me and I told her to stop it.”

“I told her everything once again but this time with a slightly louder tone. Once again, her reaction was very strange. She started getting all defensive and told me to stop ‘attacking her unnecessarily.’ Now tell me fellers, am I ‘attacking’ her by telling her to STOP HITTING MY G*DDAMN BALLS?”

Even trying the reasonable route, things didn’t go well.

“I apologized to her and told her that I’m not attacking her, but I still want my balls not being hit all the time. As a fellow Redditor in my previous post commented, I told her that I would give her two weeks to completely stop her habits.”

“Now I don’t think that I said anything wrong till now, I can swear on myself that I never said anything that would hurt her, but for some reason, she got really angry and told me that my words hurt her.”

And then it went completely off the rails.

“She angrily told me ‘I feel that it’s really cute when I do it, I enjoy being cute and open around you, you only think about yourself, you never think about my likes and wants, don’t you want me to be happy and have fun in this relationship too?'”

“I calmly explained to her about everything again and told her that I only want her to stop because it really hurts me and it might damage my organs, for which she angrily replied ‘I bet it doesn’t even hurt that much, just a little bit of pain for 5-10, it isn’t even that serious, you’re just exaggerating, also I only tap them slowly, there’s no chance that your balls would get destroyed with such light taps’.”

“She literally told me to STOP BEING A P*SSY!”

“I was literally startled after hearing those words. No offense to her, but I thought that even a 13 year old girl would know more about testicles than her.”

“She’s 26 dammit. Now I didn’t have anything to say after her replies. I kept quiet, but she had something else to say. She said that if I don’t let her touch me, then she would never let me touch her either and she told me never to touch her ever again from today.”

[Bill Calhoun]

I've known women like this. Narcissistic and lacking in basic empathy, total hypocrites. Annoys you for fun but flies off the handle if you annoy her back or if you tell her not to annoy you. Can't handle being told no and with an explosive temper. True a lot of guys here get off to her particular hobby, but women like that are bad news and need to be excised from your life ASAP, believe me.

[tsm89]

Hope she finds her way here

[Ash]

She sounds like a narcissist, there’s certainly a lot of gaslighting going on there. 

Having said that though, I can see if from her perspective and it reminds me a little too much of my marriage and how badly bb went down in that situation. 

[Joe]

She sounds fun and amazing to me.  But things have to be done the right way and consensual and agreed upon.

[Lexeme]

An amazing person has empathy for their partner and respects their boundaries

If a partner won't do that, think it will only be limited to ballbusting? You'll be in for a toxic relationship.

I know a lot of us are hurting for a ballbust, but have the self-respect to avoid relationships with people who don't respect the right to consent.

[Jack the Lad]

I hope he meets a girl who's nicer to his nuts than she is, and I hope she meets a guy who wants his nuts slapped multiple times a day.

That's the dream.

[Lexeme]

Wouldn't call this a new situation--sadists and masochists have been around forever--it's just unusual enough that there's no manual for it. That being said, her attitude toward her partner's needs is the real problem, not her lack of education. I wouldn't even recommend she go find herself a willing masochist to play with, because with her presently shitty attitude, she's not a safe play partner

[volcan51]

its obvious the hottie get this guy to abuse him. 

His concerns not entirely true, balls way less risky than face for example to being hitted. obvious she dont know how to handle it in a mature way. probably because the situation itself its quite new in human history,

Woman advancing her sexual agenda and guy dont wanting it.

those two have they days counted