In the weeks after the self defense class it was clear the dynamic in the marriage between Bob and Marg had changed. Marg, in the past quite passive, had become dominant over Bob. Telling him what to wear, what to eat, and most importantly what to do at every opportunity. She also made a routine of telling him to put his cup on so she could stay sharp on all her new moves. He would groan about it but invariably lugged himself upstairs and came back down wearing his cup, and a pair of…See More

Marg and Bob were heading home after the session that night after making a stops. Marg had to run into the pharmacy but Bob stayed in the car not wanting to walk more than necessary. She had a pep to her walk in store thinking about how much fun it had been seeing her husband getting kicked, kneed and grabbed by his balls by her self defense class mates. The faces, the noises, the manly yet pathetic grunts while curled up on the mats – it all added to her amusement at the situation. It wasn’t…See More

 Bob and Margaret have a normal marriage. They’ve been together since college and had 2 kids who are now grown and out of the house.One night Marge was leaving the community pool and was mugged by a man in a mask demanding her wallet and keys. She gave it up and luckily their insurance covered any losses. However she felt powerless and the feeling wasn’t going away. Bob suggested maybe she should take a self defense class. She found a local class and was surprised to find it was all women,…See More