Blue Balls?

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Hey boys and girls, today I want to talk about blue ball's. I feel that blue ball's doesn't get the respect that it deserves these day's so hopefully I can bring a little more attention to it. I do believe that ballbusting, chastity, tease and denial, roll together so well with each other that it deserves a little attention. 

First off,  what is blue balls? There is actually medical term for it called epididymal hypertension.  The symptoms are pain, discomfort, heaviness, and aching in your testicles. What causes EH? When a male gets aroused, the blood vessels to the penis and testicles expand to allow a greater volume of blood flow, which causes the penis to expand and stiffen, leading to an erection. The testicles also increase in size, making them feel heavier. Now usually, this blood is released after orgasm or as a result of a decreased physical arousal. When a man becomes aroused for an extended period of time without a release or decrease in sexual arousal, it causes pain and discomfort in you testicles, they may even start to turn a slight blue due to the excess blood and increase in blood pressure. Hence the name blue balls.

Oh wait a minute, what was that? I think i might need to highlight that. When a man becomes aroused for an extended period of time without release or decrease in sexual arousal, it causes pain and discomfort in your testicles. So for those who are not paying attention, that means we can make your balls sore and dont even have to touch them. 

How do you give blue ball's? Well getting him hard is obviously the way and i dont think the ladies need an explanation on how to do that. Get him hard and leave him hard for as long as you can with no release. You want to make it worse, do it several times a day. You dont even have to get undressed. Maybe you want to really make him hurt. Some silk bed rope and a blindfold is always good. Play around with him for a few hours. You want want to make it really rough? Lock his dick up for a few day's, and tease him the whole time. Weeks if you want to be really mean, trust me I know. 

I think the power behind combining Ballbusting, Chastity, and Tease and Denial should be practiced more because it can be overpowering to a man in so many ways. Giving a guy blue ball's is so underrated, and i hope it gets more of a spotlight in your "Adventures" in the future.

[volcan51]

i kind of understand the logic here, and also sound interesting being so overwhelmed by a woman.

The part i cannot get its why a guy would let his dick independence in hands of another woman. having her teasing you its great but for a guy i still think its more a loss for him in terms on hand care thatn the winning in terms of teasing.

can you tell us mel why your partner accepted chastity or blue balls from you?

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Because it has nothing to do with him in the end, its about what i am doing to him. Why would man hand his dick over to a woman? I am sure your fellow man can answer that better then I can. Who ever said shit about him winning? You are missing the point, which most guy's do. Why has he accepted chastity or blue balls? Because frankly i am a goddess and have i that power over him. 

[Smack My Nuts]

I'm not sure what you mean about it being a loss. I love having my woman do things which cause my poor balls to ache, whether it's kicking them or winding me up and then denying me. There's very little I've experienced that I find hotter than her riding me to a couple of orgasms and then climbing off, leaving my hard cock just bobbing there, telling me I'm not allowed to jerk off, giving my balls a couple of quick hard punches and then snuggling up against me, us both still nude. . It's extremely sexy having her treat my cock and balls as if they're her sex toys and my wants and my pain is irrelevant.

Plus, there's just a certain bliss to the singularity of purpose which comes with feeling horny and desperate for the woman you're with when she finds you sexy, too. Rather than that just lasting for five minutes or a half an hour, it's pleasurable to drag that feeling out for longer. 

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Spot on my friend. I have to agree and point out this is exactly what am talking about. I love how you said it was sexy that she treats you junk as her personal sex toys. That is super hot, as I am guilty of the same thing. 

[Willie]

100% agree with this. I for one love the constant aching feeling of ongoing blue balls and when you add a healthy dose of ballbusting on top of that, heaven.

[Foo Bar]

The first girlfriend to ballbust me - we can call her Kimberly - was a princess of blue balls.  Sure, we had a lot of sex, several times a day usually. But she liked me to be hard all the time. She had the teasing attitude and hot body to make that happen.  Sometimes after we had sex, she would have me blue balled and desperate again an hour later.

And yes, she liked my balls nice & blue when she busted them.  She would tease me until I couldn't control myself, couldn't keep my hands off her.  When I reached that point she would make me stand up, spread my legs, cross my arms behind my head, look her in the eyes, and say "please".  Then she'd kick my nuts.

After I had spent some time on the floor, and some time worshipping her legs, we would have sex.  We did often enough have vanilla sex.  I'd say about 50% of the times I fucked her, my balls were freshly kicked.  She did have dangerous legs. ;-)  And 99% of the time she let me fuck her, my balls were aching blue from her teasing.

[Rich]

Blueballs helps me handle more ballpain, quite a bit actually. Up to a point, then things start to get more sensitive as the need for release intensifies

[Petron Lason]

Yes, long tease and denial, blue balls... Suffering for a lady, it is so sexy... 

In that time is the lady super sexy beautiful goddess. Absolute female power. 

I love.

[Mike]

My wife and I have recently begun our journey into the world of male chastity.  The longest I've give so far is only 8 hours in the cage,  but there was a lot of teasing throughout the whole day to keep things exciting.  The 2 days leading up to the cage there was all day teasing via text, as well as watching chastity and ballbusting porn on my phone and listening to femdom erotica and i abstained from relieving myself.   I had blue balls before the cage went on, and it continued for 8 more hours in waves of agonizing discomfort.  At the end of the evening, I served my wife with my cage on as I gave her a foot treatment, including exfoliation, stripping and repainting her toe nails,  massaging with lotion,  sucking her toes and letting her rub her feet all over my face.   Through the 2 hours of foot worship, she controlled a remote cock ring that was stretched around the cage with the vibratior between the restrictive tip of the cage and my restrained balls. Once she was satisfied with the feet,  she had me bring her to orgasm 3 time with my mouth and hands while she continued adjusting patterns and intensity on the vibrating ring. When I told her I was close she turned the vibe off and giggled as my ruined orgasm drooled onto the floor between my feet through my steel cage.  The blue ball pain was still there and she felt bad for me since I had to go to work the next day.  She removed the cage,  and got a more powerful pocket vibe, used a hair tie to fasten it to the underside of my shaft, focused on the frenulum and put it on full power.  After about 2 minutes I had a hands free orgasm that lasted 90 seconds and covered everything around us in my cum.   It was the most epic orgasm I ever felt and produced more cum than when I was in my 20's, and my balls were still aching, lol.  Totally worth it.   Now I'm gonna train and prepare for Locktober.  I would love to have an in depth conversation with you about chastity play as a newcomer to the fetish.  Any advice on chastity devices, fun activities to push my limits and bring my wife great pleasure and entertainment. Anything at all to help us explore deeper into male chastity and female lead relationships.