Your ballbusting personality type

[Athlete87]

Kind of a simple pair of questions with potentially complex answers. I'm sure of all of us have a certain personality in every day life and possibly that changes when in a BB encounter (or possibly it remains constant). I think it could be really interesting to hear about everyone's varying personality types and ideal partners. Here are my questions:

1) What is your personality like in a ballbusting situation? 
2)What is your ideal partners personality like? 


Here are my answers to start

1) I tend to be very much unlike what I am in 'regular life'. The only way I have really known in a relationship to "ask for" a ballbusting so to speak is to be overly confident, arrogant and macho. If I'm play wrestling or in a convo about BB I'll kind of fall into the role of "you can't hurt me, your just a girl" and stuff like that. I don't know if it's always the best card to play, but being I was never with a partner who REALLY loved BB (more likely they just did it for my pleasure), it always seemed like the best way to fire them up a bit and tease them into having some BB fun. I always wondered if girls who actually LIKED BB would be the opposite and be turned off by me acting like that.

2) For my ideal partner, it's tough to say. The thought of a curious girl who doesn't KNOW how sensitive a guys balls are kind of turns me on. I could imagine it would be really hot to see her gain confidence and start realizing her power and my weakness all at once. On the other hand, I think it's even better to have a girl that has something to prove. I always liked a girl who seemed to know your balls better than you. I had an ex that seemed very confident that she could seriously injure any guy if she wanted to and she'd mention stuff about that when talking about BB. She didn't say it because it turned her or me on, I could tell she just wanted to prove a point that no guy was superior to her mentally or physically. It went beyond just power in a ballbusting role which was why i think it was so hot looking back at it. She seemed really adamant about letting you know that  she could really mess up your manhood and it wasn't in a playful or acting out a role way.

[Jack G]

I haven't met any woman who was sexually turned on kicking me in the balls. All my previous partners have mostly been cool with me liking it, but have never actually gotten pleasure out of it other then seeing myself enjoyment.

I've gone the route you mentioned in your first answer. I was embarrassed that it turned me on to be ballbusted so I would see if I could egg it on without actually telling them I like it. It's obviously better to be honest about it, and if your partner sees you as a "freak" or something then they aren't an open-minded individual.

I like your second answer of what you'd think an ideal personality of a partner slowly getting into ballbusting would be like. That would be awesome.

[Male Cat]

well, in my case:

1) i like to be confident but not too much, i act like i don't want to be hit in the balls, for me it is better when my partner reach fo it, get a surprice hit, i love it. i don't like to be very submissive, but the girl can crush my ego.

2) My ideal partner is a confident woman who reach for it, and knows how to do it. I mean, my ideal partner would be a girl that has some fight skills, she would defend until the opportunity appear, then she will take it and crush some balls.

 

then, my ideal foreplay is to do wrestling or street fight. obviusly the girl must win using her natural advantage.