Who's on top during sex?

[Foo Bar]

Question for the busters and bustees:  When you have have sex with your partner after a good ball breaking, who's on top?

Background of this question was my last date with my lady friend.  She unexpectedly told me she wanted to make another ballbusting video.  So we did - I posted it here, awaiting mod approval.

Now my balls are quite well-acquainted with her little fist - she busts me on almost every date.  But for this video she beat me hard.  Harder than she's beaten me in like a year.  When she finally stopped smashing my nuts I was defeated to say the least.

Then she got out a condom and put it on me.  She climbed on top and started fucking me.  But very soon I was on top.  Holding her down, arms over her head, fucking her like a little rag doll.  She's much smaller than me and quite tight, so it's painful for her when I fuck her that deep.  She loved it of course.  I'm sure the neighbors heard some really interesting sounds that night.  :)

Anyone who just saw us fucking would assume I'm the total dom and she's my little submissive.  And maybe, in that moment when I'm inside her, that's how things are?  But all the rest of the time we're in the bedroom I'm her bitch, figuratively and literally on my knees kissing her cute little ass.

So I'm wondering if other members have experienced this duality, and what you think of it?

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

Very similar to how things end up with me and my wife.. The busting usually works me into a frenzy, where I end up on top, like you described.. Yeah, it's kind of an interesting thing, because she loves that, and knows that  the way I really get worked into that state of mind is if she beats me up a bit.. 

[2swollen]

My wife knows how to get me going.  And when she wants the large, hard and in charge man in bed, she knows the harder she beats my nuts, the harder I will be coming back at her.  Other than that, ballplay is just part of our routine, positions be damned.

[Nuts for Grab]

I can relate, I like being submissive for ballbusting but once the sex starts I'm the dominant one.  My girl does like to be dominated too, spanked, whipped and such so ill be pretty dominant for that.  But for me i love being a sub.