Those of you into Cuntbusting, why?

[Lacey Crest]

I get ballbusting, an embarrassment or immasculation is pretty liberating in its humility for men and empowering for normally submissive women. Reversing previously conceived notions about who's strong and who's not can be very sexy.

I don't get cuntbusting though. Anyone who's into it, what's the appeal? If a woman's going to take pain, why use the cunt as the means of doing it? A vagina isn't really a source of pride for women as the testicles are for men and women are already submissive in society.

[swiftcaution]

Because it's not always about humiliation for people. Simple as that. Why do some people prefer to be smacked on the ass rather than punched in the face? Different sensations.

[volcan51]

well its surprisingly popular, the cuntbusting store for a few days gets into top50 in clips 4 sale.

For me ballbusting its not about domination as much as its about gender identity, i want to show my girl how man i am by taking ball shots.

Its probably similar for girls, getting connected with theirs feminine identity by taking pussy shots.

Hope this answer serves you.

[tsm89]

For me, it seems to me that usually girls are unaware they can be vulnerable there too and so their reactions and shock/surprise is really entertaining and fascinating. Also, I think it's hot when a girl is keeled over clutching her lady parts. And third it invariably sets the stage where she will bust me back and that's fun :)

[Rooomer]

Completely agree -- I love the shock when a woman find out how much it actually hurts. It's not about humiliation, but I also don't think of BB as particularly humiliating (just particularly painful and a fun way to mess with power dynamics)

[Andy Lee]

Different strokes for different folks.

On ballbusting, I actually don't like the domme videos. I find them kinda boring, and the whole swearing

and spitting doesn't do it for me.

I just like seeing people in genital pain for some weird reason, hence why cuntbusting is also appealing to me (and not so much titbusting).

As for CB in particular, I like it mainly when it's FvF. Either it's a funny roshambo/accident vid, sexy superheroine vid (which are staged) or just the few chicks that actually like getting pain there.

Plus there's a bit of that stigma (which is old now) that it doesn't hurt girls there, and we know that's wrong, lol.

[Christian Peterson]

I'm with you on the domme thing, 100%!

As for me, I don't seek out CB but if I come across it it's okay.  The idea of roshambo is rather attractive, to be honest.  I'd even say I'd prefer m/f roshambo over m/m.

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

Same reason lots of guys like to watch mud wrestling, and maybe would jump in with them, even if it means getting overpowered. Same reason guys like wrestling with girls, and will overpower her, but if she uses sneaky manuvers on his vulnerabilities, it's still sexy for him. Men are wired to like effort, competition, and battle. Even losing has a certain glory to it, especially when it's a gorgeous woman, but defeating her when she's putting up a hard fight, sure. Yet, we are indeed not complete animals, so just going out and raping women, and beating them to a pulp isn't really what we want, hence this sort of rough play comes into the picture. No one gets permanently, or seriously injured, but we get to scratch that itch. 

[Andy Lee]

To add further to this, to me, watching MvF BB is like watching vanilla porn, while watching FvF CB is like watching some girl on girl action, haha.

[Hurts!]

Because the womans reaction is the best, it almost sounds like she is organism, the problem I have is most Cuntbusting is light online and never done with heels or boots on. it's very rare to see this, most cuntbusting online is fake and staged sadly

[Andy Lee]

I think the long drawn-out "orgasmic moans" are usually staged busts, especially Superheroine videos. Either that, or the bust is more real, but the girl is really into it. Usually a bust will make them groan and maybe shut their eyes hard, rather than the softly shut, slowly moaning. I kinda agree with ya, it feels like there are more guys willing to get their balls smashed than girls wanting to be busted.

[J S]

You're going to get a lot of different answers to this from different people, and honestly it's often hard to put into words.

To me, BB and CB are two sides of the same coin, and I find both incredibly hot for pretty much the same reasons. In both cases, the appeal for me is in a person being totally incapacitated by a blow to what is not only their most private and sexual parts, but also their most vulnerable and sensitive. I find it hot that both men and women can be forced to writhe on the floor clutching their sexual parts and made helpless by pain alone. There's just something really hot and primal about fighters attacking each other in their sexual, vulnerable parts.

I'm pretty much not-at-all into the "stand against a wall and get kicked at" busting, BB or CB; I'm into low blows mainly in the context of sports, especially fighting and contact sports, and sexual wrestling and fighting, where both sides are competing on an even field, and the low blow is just a devastatingly dirty way of taking down your opponent. That it's a dirty and taboo move makes it hotter to me.

I don't know that I share your view of rigid gender roles, which might be an artifact of my environment. That might be because both as a fighter and in my career, most of the women I meet would not satisfy the "traditional" mold. Most are headstrong, generally no less aggressive than the men I interact with, and far from submissive. Also, the women I would most enjoy seeing coochbusted tend to be strong, athletic, and confident. Picture this girl, for example:

That's the kind of girl I LOVE to see writhing on the floor after a single devastating blow to the groin, especially by another woman in a "relaxed rules" boxing, kickboxing, or fighting match. She's built, she's tough, she's a formidable competitor. Yet, no matter how hard she trains to solidify her abs into a brick wall, how powerful she makes her thighs, how firm her butt, she can't do anything to strengthen that soft bulging peach in between. She might have gasped in horror as she saw where that kick was going, but couldn't protect her most private parts in time. And now she's just been taken down, writhing on the floor, because of a single blow to that vulnerable spot. It's dirty, it's devastating, it's humiliating, and all of that turns me on.

The story of my first bust may also help flesh out my interest in cb, and it also shows that the hierarchical roles aren't always as we would presume, haha. You can find it near the bottom of the page here: http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/sports-injuries-stori...

Hope that helps answer! I'd be happy to answer any follow-up questions, or hear your (or anybody else's) thoughts on it!

[J S]

One addition, since I can't edit my above comment: I dislike the term "cuntbusting" because it makes the activity sound demeaning towards women. That's not something I associate with low blows used against women, and not something I find appealing.

It's just a biological fact that men and women are vulnerable in the groin. I don't see exploiting that vulnerability as a "put-down" or inherently demeaning. Rather, IMO, both BB and CB (which I mentally think of to mean coochbusting, since the "CB" acronym is just too damn convenient and "PB" doesn't have the same ring to it) are only demeaning if someone MAKES them demeaning. I don't see them that way, and my busting scenarios, scenes, and fantasies don't cast them that way. That might help clear up a possible point of confusion.