The boys and their toys Interview

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Hello boys, Melinda here. I have a few questions that I want to ask, and seeing how guys don't have interviews here, (understandable considering the woman to men ratio here) I figure I would start one for you guys, because I have questions sometimes and I want answers. So this one is your guys to answer any questions I have, and maybe some other ladies might have some general questions as well. Please refrain from smart ass answers and bullshit.

Ok first question. After your done getting your balls busted, what do you feel like? My husband is very docile after I bust his balls, he is more romantically intiment then sexually. He seems to be cuddly and more interested in just talking to me. He always goes out of his way to help me, and pretty much waits on my every need. The more and harder I bust his balls, the better the response I get form him. Now am I just luckily or do any of you boys get like that after a good busting?

Question 2. How do you honestly feel about ballbusitng in a relationship, long term. Knowing that it would become an active lifestyle more or less? 10 years of busting my husbands balls for the reasons that I do eventually changed the entire structure of our relationship. We are closer now then we have ever been. Do you think you would be able too?


Look forward to the responses and the chance to grill you guys. ;) later

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

I am usually really turned on by it, and when she does it, there comes a time during which, I just get so overwhelmed I just take her. She likes that part more than the busting from what I can tell, but she knows she can get me crazy by doing this, so she's gotten more comfortable with squeezing especially, and some kneeing. She's kind of always liked me to be actually more rough than I am comfortable with to her, so it's kind of interesting the two of us both wanting to have some abuse, having to take turns, lol. After sex though, I get very affectionate, and want to do things for her. She likes to cuddle then too. 

I am in a long term relationship, we have been married 12 years. I cannot imagine allowing a stranger to bust me. I have no idea how to trust this person!! For me it is sexual. I don't think I could have sex with a stranger either, far too personal for me. It's like walking around naked, I would only do this in front of my wife.. I would like for her to do this more, and get a bit more busting, for her to be abit rougher with me, but yes, there has been that concern will she still respect me if she's gone all out, and left me in a heap of quivering jello? So far, she's only gotten me riled up enough to be willing to give her the treatment she wants, she's never busted me so hard that I collapsed, or went limp, or anything like that. So, I'll admit, it's a fear. It's kind of like the whole 3 some fantasy, most people who've done it say it wasn't as fun as the fantasy about it was, and that someone in the relationship ended up hurt. I would never want my fantasy to ruin what we have together in our relationship. 

Do I prefer sessions, or spontaneous? Hmm, I think it would be fun for spontaneous teasing busts, but my wife is VERY shy about public displays, or whatever, and I cannot imagine her ever doing such. Would really take me by surprise, that is for SURE! I'd probably get VERY horny too. I think spontaneous busts from girls is what got me turned on by this i the first place.. However, sessions, it sounds so, well, I dunno, dry? I don't want to be there, telling her "now kick me" "now I wanna get kneed", etc. What I want ideally, is for her to be super turned on by this, and as foreplay give me a good beat down, knees, kicks, like as we are undressing, kind of spontaneous, something she WANTS to do.. 

Castration threats? Well, if they were serious, I'd probably not be interested. But, for her to be turned on by the thought of it, for her to be telling me that it makes her hot to think about making my balls burst as I am shooting my last load into her, WOW. That would be so hot to think about, and obviously, I don't want it to happen, but a good hard squeeze at just the right time, would be AWESOME, along with her telling me about it.. 

Unfortunately, we have young children, so we can't really talk much during sex, or say much during sex, so the talking while having sex stuff doesn't happen much. I seriously wanna build a sound proof room sometimes!

For me, I would absolutely LOVE for her to be seriously turned on by this like I am. She is more turned on my me pushing her down, holding her arms, and having my way with her. She loves it. So, the way I have figured out how to get her to bust me, is when she does, I give her what she wants, so we both end up happy.. 

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Very sexy liquid metal, thank you for sharing so much. I have to say I am in agreement with your wife. I like man to be rough with me, and I'm not really big on being gentle unless it's a mood thing. Men are beast, at least mine is. I like my beast to buck. When I am crushing my mans balls I don't see weakness, actually the opposite. I see pounds of pure dense muscle flexing and tightening, strianing against pain that is directed at the very core of his masculinity. The docile part doesn't happen until after a thorough busting. During he is aggressive, the harder I do it the more aggressive he gets, like a wild animal on the verge of losing control. Its what I want, what I need him to do. I have noticed session busting tends to get a bad rep, mostly because what you said, it can be dry I your standing there giving orders. Might I make a suggestion, and this goes for everyone. Think of a session like a steril sexual space that you can do anything in. Within that session you create a scene that can be whatever you want. Like you and your wife, good example, other couple could use that if isn't something that they usually do, she bust his balls hard until a certain point and then he has to beast fuck her, or he has to beast fuck her to stop her form busting his balls ;) now those are very vague examples but hopefully you get the picture.

[Paul Baker]

It's been great hearing from you and all the other married couples that makes busting part of their relationship. It looks like there are a few wives out there who like it a little rough, and the men here are naturally hesitant for fear of hurting them. Perhaps you could try a sort of wrestling macth foreplay where you're trying to pin her and hold her arms down etc, where your nuts are a free target for any attack. Hopefully she can get what she likes, and bust you to prolong the game. My girlfriend and I use a similar game involving tickling.

Goodluck on that soundproof room

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

More questions coming at you guys. Tell me boys, do you think ballbusitng affects how you get turned on? I speak from experience when I say that busting my husband for 10 years has had a unforeseen side effect. His hard on. To make my husband as hard as a rock, requires ballbusitng now. If I don't bust his balls, it requires A LOT of stimualation to get him compleatly aroused, and then there is no guarantee that he will stay hard. When I am busting him he gets super hard and he stays hard. He literary needs his balls busted to have sex.

Men what turns you on the most about ballbusitng, is it the pain? The person causing the pain? Do you guys ever have second thoughts while your having your balls busted? And finally have you ever continued a session even if you weren't sure that she had caused some kind o damage or you suspected damage?

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

I get hard pretty much by the fact that I know she wants me.. But, yes, Add a busting in there, and I am harder and more excited than without being busted. I can usually stay hard without being busted, but then again, she hasn't REALLY gone after me yet, so maybe I haven't been busted hard enough for that effect?

I've never suspected injury. Though my wife thinks she injured me years ago when I convinced her to do this. I happened to pass a kidney stone a day or two later, and she thought she hit me too hard. I really don't think she did, because I wasn't in much pain, til I was going to the bathroom, and felt like sharp pieces of glass coming out, along with a bunch of blood. I wasn't sure what had happened, and I talked to her about it that night, and I think she was convinced that she'd damaged me. I think she might still be timid because of that. After I have done some research, I am convinced I just passed a kidney stone, and it probably had nothing to do with her kneeing me, but I haven't been able to convince her I think.. 

What turns me on the most? I do'nt know. I think having a woman be sexually assertive to me is big, the fact she would want to hurt me this way, sexually is a turn on. Most women complain about being treated like a piece of meat, or lusted after, to feel used sexually.. Well, most men would LOVE for women to treat them that way, LOL.. Walk in a room, and have all the women staring at us, lust in their eyes, undressing us in their minds. Yeah, never gonna happen, LOL.. But, ball busting is sort of like that in my mind I think, best sense I've ever made of it.. The most sexy thing a woman could do with me, is WANT me sexually so bad, she's willing to essentially rape me to get what she wants.. 

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Lol and How old are you again, remember my man is 2 over 40 love.

[Berkey]

do you think ballbusitng affects how you get turned on?

I can get turned on without ballbusting, but, pretty much regardless of what is happening, ballbusting is an instant guaranteed turn on (having it happen, seeing it happen, talking about it, etc.).

Men what turns you on the most about ballbusitng, is it the pain? The person causing the pain?

I think it's a combination of a lot of factors - the person doing it, the pain, and the humiliation. I think I may have initially gotten into ballbusting for sort of Pavlov's dog-type reasons. I mentioned before that my sister and a couple of her friends used to bust me a lot when I was growing up (15 and up) - well, that was oftentimes because, horny teenager that I was, I used to be a pretty blatant perv, ogling them and whatever. So I think it came to be a natural association between being sexually attracted to them and getting busted.

But, overall, I'd say it's mostly the humiliation that turns me on, with the pain being a not-inconsiderable secondary factor. I love the feeling of vulnerability, of being totally in someone's control (situations where a woman - even a petite, weak one - literally has my manhood in the palm of her hand, and can absolutely destroy me with just a little pressure), and the sense of humiliation during and after a bust.

Do you guys ever have second thoughts while your having your balls busted? 

How do you mean? I think I'd say yes, though - there are definitely times during sessions where I start to regret it, or break down, or beg for mercy.

And finally have you ever continued a session even if you weren't sure that she had caused some kind o damage or you suspected damage?

Yes - fortunately I've never actually had real damage, but there have been a few times where I was in incredible pain (well, that's all the time :P ) and thought that my partner really had damaged a nut - sometimes, we go on because I don't mention it, but there were a couple times where my partner just told me to soldier on and pray she didn't break the other one...

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

That's exactly what I meant by seconded thoughts lol. What about seconded thoughts on the person who is busting you? Wow so what makes you powered through it and my mention it, if you they dish hurt you? Soldier on and pray I don't break the other one, I can not believe I haven't thought of that one yet. So you let me guess, you pray to not lose them at that point? Lol

[Berkey]

What about seconded thoughts on the person who is busting you? 

Second thoughts about the person busting me? You mean, are there specific people that sort of worry me during busting? Yeah, I'd say so - for one, my sister is really cavalier about busting, as I mentioned.

Wow so what makes you powered through it and my mention it, if you they dish hurt you? Soldier on and pray I don't break the other one, I can not believe I haven't thought of that one yet. So you let me guess, you pray to not lose them at that point? Lol

I love it all, including the fear and uncertainty! But yeah, losing one would definitely be a downer - a fantasy, but not one I want to play out, lol.

But, overall, it's because I can't control myself - I know that it's gonna hurt, but I still just have to have it. Like, if it clears anything up, one of my sister's favorite things (as I said before, she was a massive tease growing up because she knew I thought she was hot) would be to walk up to me, grab my shoulders, smile, and just nod for me to look down... naturally, my eyes would get fixated on her cleavage, she's tell me to look "A little lower", and I'd end up kneed and dropped to the ground.

Every time this happened (happens, still :D ), I know what's going to happen - I know that I haven't gotten lucky, that I'm going to end up with bruised jewels on the ground, and that she's going to laugh and walk away, but I just have to let it happen.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Lol just re reading some of my responses and I realize that I obviously don't pay attention sometimes when I am typing, looks like a 5 year old wrote it lol I apologize in advance for anymore gibberish.

[Maskedguy 1.7]

Question 1

i,m still new, so i still dont understand (done).(i stop when i met certain target, example a kick / knee that drop me)

i became more sexually arouse after the busting (and also in pain).

i like to watch the women eye / smile after that..her reaction is important..

Question 2,

i love to have long term relationship (with ballbusting in it).

i prefer medium hit, and once in awhile like on hard hit per one year..

[Jake Smithee]

In response to a few of your questions, if a bit meandering...

I would be terrified to try this out in a long-term relationship (and I am in one, and have never mentioned BB).  "He's eventually going to lose a ball" sounds right to me.  A woman who is into it, really into it, is going to want to bust them harder and harder and, well, they're fragile.

Maybe my perspective is different.  Lots of girls busted me playfully in high school (and one not so playfully), but it definitely wasn't an "interest" of mine until an ex (at the end of high school), who I was really, really into, started threatening my balls.  It was the only thing that still connected us, really.

She did, flat out, threaten to castrate me, and I think she wanted to do it, and eventually, because it connected me to her, it started to turn me on.  I guess you could say, to reference an earlier comment, that she "broke" me into an interest in BB.  She busted me once "accidentally" with her knee while we were making out, which, in retrospect, was probably totally on purpose, and despite the pain, she laughed and kissed me in a way that seemed to mean that she wanted me so much that it was definitely a turn-on.  That's the closest I have in terms of experience to being busted in a sexual setting by someone who definitely wanted to do it.  I have been busted a few times ACTUALLY accidentally during foreplay, and it did make the sex interesting.

I think I tend to get less docile and more resistant when having my balls busted, except of course for those times I was kicked so hard that I couldn't get up for awhile.  I know that after being kicked in the nuts by steel-toed boots when I was sixteen, I just clutched my balls for dear life whenever the person who kicked me threatened to "finish the job" for the rest of the night.