Playful busting - or beating him to tears?

[Foo Bar]

When my ex and I started out with BB, it was light and playful.  But for the last several years we were together she decided it was going to be 100% femdom.  Her ball breaking sessions - she called it "disciplining" me - were absolutely brutal. 

Every time she busted me (which was every time I saw her), she wasn't satisfied until I was in tears.  Desperately hard, mind erased, sobbing, begging, totally defeated.  It was still very sexual, but it wasn't playful anymore - it was total emasculation, every single date.  She was really into the humiliation aspect of it.

So I'm wondering if the lovely ladies of KITG prefer the playful teasing style of BB we started out with?  Or do you prefer wrecking your man's nuts until he's a helpless, sobbing mess? 

Honestly, I'm not sure which style I prefer.  Maybe daily playful busts, with the occasional merciless will-breaking emasculation beating.  Not that my preferences matter so much.  In a relationship like that, it's all her choice.  ;-)

[Eliza D.]

im sure this isnt a surprise but i prefer beating him to tears lol.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Break them. I love the playful busting, it is always welcome and i love doing it all the time. That being said i still say break them. Ball breaking is where its intense, where it really gets me going. I am not satisfied unless he is in tears. That mind numbing, pleading and begging kind of busting that leaves me feeling supreme, dominate and powerful. It is still very sexual in nature, it has to be. It is not just domination, but sexual domination. For me it always starts out playful, but rarely does it end playfully.

[Joe]

That's the best way.

[Amy B]

I'm playful 90% of the time but the 10% I'm not is pretty empowering. Not sure hubby loves it when I get too serious but I kind of enjoy the fear in his eyes.