OK ladies, what questions do you hate being asked the most while in chatrooms?

[greeneyedsusan]

For me it's when a guy asks me when was the last time I busted a guy in the balls, even if it's been only three weeks, they'll respond with "Why so long? or "That's a long time ago". When in all reality it's pretty frigin recent, even a bust that's five months old is fairly recent. Girls aren't busting machines, we don't go around kicking balls on a daily basis. So the next time a girl says two month ago, you can respond by say, "Oh, very cool" or something very similar. Thank you and have a nice day.

[Beaten13]

Amen to that. We can learn a lot about how to be a bit less annoying by reading this post ;)


dvhour (Site Owner) said:

Ok Zig... so by your logic everyone in this community has the same exact desire & intensity for ballbusting? This site ranges from active hardcore fetishists to people who will never participate. It has people who have been into this for 10+ years and some only for a few months. There is the Kramtoad crowd then there's the passive youtube crowd. I understand U wanting to express your opinion but lets keep this thread realistic and proactive not in the fantasy realm.

The whole point of this section is for the ladies to discuss their dislikes of the questions some guys ask with regards to ballbusting. This is meant to help improve communication between the sexes. I would think it would be in our best interest for us to listen rather than be combative. :)

[KneeMyNuts]

This topic is actually extremely useful...it really is a shame it was forgotten.  Hopefully, we can bring it back? 

 

I try not to be so pushy/annoying when I conserse with women in terms of BB, but when you find a woman who's into it too, (I don't want to speak for all or even most men) I just feel like I have a ton of questions I want to ask all at once.  I NEVER want to be the creepy jerk...I just can't help myself sometimes. :-)  Men have two "heads" and only enough blood to be able to think with one at a time.

 

Thanks for your input, ladies!  It's greatly appreciated!

[Smoo]

Yay for Thread Necromancy!

A conversation should be just that... a conversation.  Needs to be interactive on both sides.  Even here I've chatted with several people and all you get are one word answers to everything.  Granted if I message them they might be busy or be involved in a zillion other chats, but if thats the case a simple: cant talk, too many chats or a: sorry, too distracted right now - is a good thing.  I don't mind hearing that as it lets me know to leave them alone too so I'm not bugging them.  :)

[Mallory {The Boss}]

One-word answers ?? tsk tsk, Mr. Smoo  :)

Seth (Smoo) said:

Yay for Thread Necromancy!

A conversation should be just that... a conversation.  Needs to be interactive on both sides.  Even here I've chatted with several people and all you get are one word answers to everything.  Granted if I message them they might be busy or be involved in a zillion other chats, but if thats the case a simple: cant talk, too many chats or a: sorry, too distracted right now - is a good thing.  I don't mind hearing that as it lets me know to leave them alone too so I'm not bugging them.  :)

[airoone]

so susan when was you last bust? ;)

[Marina Glückskeks]

to answer the question which question do i hate most... Actually every single guy (80%) asks the same questions. I could employ a robot. Imagine you have 5 tabs open and all are the same.

 

1. Hi. (Me thinks: 3... 2... 1... how are you - i bet!)

2. How are you. (Me thinks: Blah / Interest goes down to "already annoyed")

3. Any busts lately? (Interest goes down to "I bet my ass and a cheeseburger this is another standard convo")

4. You bust hard? (Me thinks: "Confirmed."

5. You ever busted someone til his balls popped? (Me thinks: "...and hes' even a freak... no sane bustee ever asked me shit like that)

6. Which shoes do ya wear ? (Interest goes down to like... point of extinction)

7. Would you bust me if i was there now? (Me thinks: Woah yeah, marriage included, i have no idea WHO you are but...anyway)

8. Do you get really horny and excited when you bust? (Me thinks: I'd rather wana kick yer ass than your balls for all these questions, i guess i better close this window...)

--> Do you want me to include you in my 900 mill. dollar legacy? (*=THis question isnt coming but its the moment when i long for questions like that)

9. So great talking to you, Do you have MSN? (Me thinks: By god i swear you'll NEVER get my MSN for the sake of my soul ^^)

10. Restart from question 4 in an infinite, continuous and grueling cycle, skipping question 9 in case it has been answered with "Yes"

I cannot say i dislike a question more than the other.

Since these questions form a unit, the entire unit equally turns me off, how about that?

[Edward D]

I get what your saying and you have to take all 10 questions as a whole, but as for #2 I always ask how someone's doing, male or female, in our chat room.  It's just good manners. :) 

Wow, I just saw when this was actually posted, I'm over a year too late!  lol, well  better late than never I suppose!

[Smoo]

I agree.  It just seems polite to start with a "hi" and "how are you" and go from there.  It may be just small talk no different then a store cashier asking - you're not gonna tell them anything all that personal.  Yet, I've had whole conversations come from a reply.

[Sarah Versell]

snap. 90% of windows... and aggression if i ignore the window...

[Bbhaver]

Now this was funny. :D

Anyway, it's kinda hard to talk about ballbusting. This is something that is better when you just do it. I had an e-mail conversation once with a woman who was really into it but after a few letters i just ran out of questions and things to talk about.

Marina Schwarz said

[Brendah Moore]

The questions that annoy me are the ones that show the guy (or girl) hasn't bothered to read my profile. I don't expect them to have read all my blogs and every comment I've made on every clip, photo or discussion. But it does get tedious repeating what they find just a click away. I always read a profile before agreeing to chat.

[greeneyedsusan]

Ask my Fiancee ;)

airoone said:

so susan when was you last bust? ;)