How to be a BB bitch.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Hello everyone, I want to set up some kind of guide, ways I think will make a better ballbusting bitch. I encourage anyone to add there own thoughts, male or female. These are just my opinion, and mainly the way I am when I am busting :) I will add things that have tried or done that work. Give me anything you can think of. I want to corrupt your mind ;)

1) There is always a reason to bust his balls.

Be it because he was staring at another woman, grabbed your ass, a smart ass comment, or maybe you just want to hurt his testicles to see him suffer as a man. Either way, there is always a reason your man NEEDS his balls busted, find it.

2) OWN his testicles.

Literally. As in your going to do whatever you want to them, when you want, how ever hard you want. Every second he is still able to function as man Is a special gift from you. Don't be afraid to constantly remind him of it either. Make him fear losing his balls every time you go near them.

3) Why have power, if you don't use it.

Don't ask to bust his balls, demand too. He is going to stand there and spread his legs and take as many hits as he can before he is on the floor, and then he gets busted harder for not being able handle it. Your goal is to bust, break, and shatter his manhood. It's his to goal to beg, plead, and bribe you not to destroy them. So tell him to start begging and make it good, you could always use more foot rubs, and body massages. See where I'm going with this.



I have more and will continue to add more as well. You are more then welcome to add more. One more thing; this is under the assumption that you are in a consensual bb relationship, I wouldn't suggest doing these things to strangers :)

ADVISORY: Could bring out a woman's BB bitch side. General caution is advised.
CAUTION: Men could find said BB bitch crazy and should take the begging part serious.

[Foo Bar]

One ex-gf had a rule of which you might approve:  Absolutely no penetrative sex without busted balls.  Often she would give me "free" blowjobs - with no busting - but all the BJs in the world and a man still needs to satisfy his urges for a proper fuck.  She loved having sex and loved that I wanted her so badly.  So for her it was about humbling me, not about punishing my desire.

We dated for about a year.  Only once - on my birthday - did she allow me inside her without sore balls.  It wasn't all submission tho.  Once she was satisfied I had suffered enough for it, she'd give me my turn on top, fucking her little a little rag doll.  :-)

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

I approve 100 %. It should be a requirement. Your ex was a lot nicer then me, I don't give freebies, and birthdays just mean your getting busted harder. The real day for the most brutal of busting is if your married, your anniversary. Anyway off topic, hubby gets busted just for watching me undress. He always wants me, and I love that he can't resist me, knowing that getting his balls busted is the ONLY way he is going To get the chance to satisfy said urges and that's just for the chance to. I also make him pay the price of actually satisfying those urges. Put quit bluntly, if he gets off, I get to kick him in the nuts hard, no questions asked, right after we are done. He said its extremely painful after sex to get kicked in the balls, and it lets me completely own the the whole experience.

[Foo Bar]

You always kick him hard right AFTER sex?!  Wow, talk about pain and humiliation!  He must feel 100% owned. 

When you're about to do the post-sex busting, do you verbally emasculate him?  If so I'd love to know what kind of things you tell him.  :-)

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Yes I do, it's payment for the pleasure. The fact that he has to endure ballbusting for anything sexual is pretty emascualimg itself. I don't really need to say any thing. When we are done we both stand, we are both naked, and then I just point to the floor. He gets on knees before me and I signal to spread his legs until they are wide enough, and puts his hands behind his back. I put my foot underneath his balls and gauge my distance and accuracy. I couple really light practice swings to get the feel of the momentum I'm going to put behind it. Remember, the purpose of this kick is 100 % pure domination, so I have to make it hard, and I want it to make it count. He makes it a point to be at his best when he takes me, he will exhaust every ounce of energy pleasing me. I thank him for being a great man, a good husband, and phenomenal lover. When he is spent, sexual and physically exhausted as I look down at him with his legs spread wide for me to finish him off makes me feel divine. It is extremely intense, the sharp loud smack of my foot meeting his balls reverberating off the walls. I kick him hard too, I want him to feel the kind of pain that shoots threw his spin until it reaches his skull. It's one of the most amazing things I have ever felt, to just completely own him, defeat him, and do it in the hottest way possible. That is usual how post sex busting goes. If he goes above and beyond, and amazes me then he gets another one from behind while on all fours. These are usual the times he comes close to throwing up. The payment for pleasing me is pretty high, but he gladly pays it every time ;)

[Foo Bar]

Melinda - that is just so hot that you thank him for being a good man, husband, and lover right before you break his balls. It's awesome when a woman builds up her lover as a man, at the same time as she is owning and humbling his male sexuality.  It makes the domination that much more physical, direct, intense.

I'm curious...  It's obvious you are 100% completely and totally empowered in the bedroom.  How does it carry over into non-sexual daily life?  In my experience there is a certain slight reflexive willingness to obey her and generally cooperate.  I mean, how could I not feel a little obedient to the girl who had crushed my testicles the night before?  But it never made us have a domme/sub relationship out of bed - we had pretty vanilla power dynamics. You, however, are way more of an ultra-bitch with your husband than any of my lovers have been with me.  So I wonder if that changes things.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

I thank him because it's true, even though I am about to smash his family jewels, he is a great man, and a wonderful husband.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

And yes it does affect other parts of our life's, because when I bust his balls, he is more obedient, and goes out of his way to pamper me and do what I ask, and he can't tell me no, as long as it is within reason. It seems like busting his balls alter the way he thinks,not sure if it is that way for all men, or just him. Besides I am married to him, so I own his testicles.

[volcan51]

 

thanks for this interview

he is more obedient just when you bust him, or always?

[Weak dude]

How it should be

[MadisonGuy]

This rule is so deviously clever.  You are using his sexuality against him, it really is combining ballbusting with orgasm control.  The result is that the more he pleases you, the more you get to bust him, which also pleases you.  It's win-win-win for you.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

This one is based off of your direct ability to be a cold hearted bitch.


8) Bitches don't bluff.

If you say your going to do something then do it. I said I was going to kick you in the balls 10 times, very very hard, just because your on the verg of throwing up on kick 8 doesn't mean your not getting the other 2. I usually recommend that he gets in touch with his feminine side at that point. It's the only thing he can do.

[Foo Bar]

You are deliciously bitchy,Melinda! 

It's actually hard to find a true ball busting bitch.  A lot of girls, in my experience, get a good giggle and power trip of dropping their man with a kick, or bringing him to respect with a firm squeeze.  But it takes a true sadist - or a hardcore power tripper - to make her lover really beg or cry.