Help out a busting virgin!

[Newgirl]

Describe a bust. Start to finish. Do you have sex after? Are you too sore?

[Calvin]

Sex after would be awesome.. I would love to help you to pop your ball busting cherry ..the more sore your balls are the better..:)

[Fox & Wolf]

    Hey New Girl! Welcome to the club. Great to see someone else from Canada too!! We're also a couple (I'm “Wolf” & my wife is “Fox.”) We were also “busting virgins” about 2 months ago. Now, we do it every night & are absolutely LOVIN' it! This is a great site for learning more. It was our only source when we were first learning about it (& it still is!) Some stuff is pretty extreme/hardcore, but we're more sensual/softcore. Being so new to it ourselves, we can only give an example of what we do.

    We mix the busting WITH sex. Our bust last night was a pretty good example of what we do, so I'll use that. First we started making out, & Fox massaged my balls (with some medium squeezing & pulling.) We had some nice ballbusting discussion (I mentioned how amazing it was to be “in her hands” & she talked about how she likes controlling my reactions so easily.) As she got more aroused, she started squeezing/pulling harder. Then, at the peak of her excitement & my threshold for pain, she slid down me & used her breasts to massage/compress my balls. Then, (*what has become the favorite for both of us) she slides right down & gives a very gentle oral massage. Going back & forth from penis to balls, she gets more & more “rough.” She took each testicle in her mouth separately & gave them a nice massage of licking/sucking. She did many cool tricks with both balls in her mouth (like sucking/pulling hard, holding them in her mouth while humming, & shaking her head from side to side.) After that, she sat up & just played with my balls, again getting rougher & rougher. (& we talked some more about busting/balls in general.) She started with some light bouncing, moved to squeezing/pulling, & eventually had a good grip on my sack while slapping/punching. Again, at the peak of our pleasure/pain, she climbed on top & rode me for while. She often reached behind her & grabbed my balls. When I was extremely close to exploding, she climbed off & laid beside me. I rolled over on top of her, & kinda crouched on hands/knees with one leg between hers. I basically made out with her chest while I massaged her body & fingered her. One of her legs was also between mine, & she gave me some busting (first just rubbing her knee back & forth pressing upward & holding, played with her knee to trap an individual ball, and eventually some pretty hard kneeing.) We took a couple “intercourse” breaks in between & also did more talking too (about how kneeing was by far the easiest way to bust balls, how it takes SO little effort to inflict pain, & how if one ball got trapped between knee & pelvic bone it wouldn't take much to pop one.) We find the discussion is very sexy (maybe just because we're new at it.) Fox is very shy & timid, but she's also extremely frisky (& she can orgasm really easily.) I fingered her slowly so it lasted longer, but she finally orgasmed (like crazy!) Somewhere in her stretching & squirming, she gave me a few really hard knees. At this point it had been about 3 or 4 hours & I felt as satisfied as she did, so we didn't do much after that. We cuddled while she recovered & she massaged my aching balls. Then we stood up & she gave me a quick handjob/ball massage to get me going again. Then she backed up & she gave me about 4 kicks, getting harder & harder, until I buckled/bent over. Then about 5 or 6 kicks (& the last one was really hard.) I went down. After she caressed my balls a little, I got up & crouched on my hands & knees. Fox sat beside me. She reached under my stomach to give me an amazing handjob, while her other hand reach around (between my legs) & grabbed my balls from behind. Now she got a little rough. She grabbed the sack tight & pulled really hard (I thought she was going to pick me up!) She repeatedly slapped them harder & harder & harder, until I was at the peak of pain. As usual, this is my limit & I began to cum. After that, we just laid together for a while. [*Important note: I find my testicles can go through a lot when I'm aroused, but having them busted WHILE cumming is very painful -so we have a code (I say “ooooo” instead of “aaaaaaa.”) that says when I'm cumming. When she hears this, she stops the hard busting & just grabs ahold or pulls at a medium strength. Since we started ballbusting, I've noticed the length of my orgasms increase ten times what they were.]

    Today, my poor balls are kinda tender, but it feels good. I feel very obedient & snuggly after a good bust. It's hard to describe how pain can feel good, but it's almost like scratching an itch. You may have to take it somewhat easy if he's not used to it (& depending on his tolerance/preference.) That's actually what we found to be the best & sexiest part of it all -taking the journey together, (figuring out the psychology of it, trying different techniques, & testing out limits of tolerance.) We hope this helps, & again, we welcome you to this great community. Best of luck with your endeavors & feel free to ask us anything, any time.

[Newgirl]

Thanks! Gives me a place to start

[Fox & Wolf]

No probs! That was pretty detailed, but the best thing is just to add the busting to your favorite ways of how you normally do it. I agree with KingKiller; it really is a humiliating thing getting busted, so it's definitely better if the girl takes charge. Hope you have a great one!

[KingKiller]

My gf and I actually started out with sex *during,* not after. I think my first one happened when she gave me a playful kick while I was going down on her.

That said, looking straight into a girl's eyes as she explodes your world with her knee does feel scarily intimate. You might just need to take the lead a bit more, as it's hard to feel assertive with a swollen pair.

[12u6vu8cuaa50]

Hello Newgirl. 

The exact details of what being busted feels like can very depending on several things such as the type of bust and exactly which part of the testicle is receiving the pressure.  For example the effect of a squeeze are different from that of a kick.  Or if the epidydimus (the part where the cords attached) is hit directly the way the pain spreads is different than if they are hit elsewhere.

There are somethings that are the same regardless 1. it hurts 2. they will become sensitive after words :) (my favourite part because everything else there becomes more sensitive as well) 3. not only do the balls them selves hurt but it hurt all the way up the nerves into the sacral plexus where those nerves enter into the spinal column. 4. the pain last for some after the bust.

The most painful bust I've ever had was a squeeze.  My girlfriend at the time ask me how hard she would have to hit a guy the to stop him in a self defence situation.  So I offered to let her squeeze my balls. when she first began to squeeze the pain started from the centre of each testicle an the radiated out throbbing with each heart beat.  After about 3 seconds the pain became constant and travelled from my balls up into my stomach and back for the next 20 seconds or so the pain became exponentially greater as she gradually squeezed my nuts harder and harder.  At which point I was completely at her mercy. All I could do was ask her to stop.  Then she let go the intensity of pain almost instantly subsided, but not to the point of being able to walk strait.

No not too sore.   Even though I hurt some time after (15 to 20 minutes or so) it was great it also helped take my mind off of my hurting balls.

Hope this helped to answer some of your questions.

[Newgirl]

So very helpful!!
Poor boy can't stop smiling.
So, next question:
How often can we do this without injuring him?

[KingKiller]

I do hope you're smiling as well :)

[Fox & Wolf]

Hey! (Wolf) Again, we're new at this, but we do it every night, 7 days a week. And often throughout the day. No problems yet! (2 months) Definitely helps to have massage time after. The only reason we'd have to break was if I had a stomach ache, etc. All depends on him I'd say. I think it would be very hard for me to turn down a bust (even if I was soar) so it may be hard to figure out what his preference/tolerance is. Obviously depends on how hard too (Fox can get pretty rough, & sometimes take it kinda easy.) We're still in the midst of figuring out the actually limits & biology of testicles (kinda sexy & fun if it's together!)

[Bronson]

Well there is always risk. But the more the balls are conditioned for busting the more they can take.

[Newgirl]

I guess I'm confused. I know he is checking out vids every day online... But he doesn't seem interested in busting/sex with me. I thought maybe he was sore from our first time.

[Fox & Wolf]

That's too bad. Maybe you're right & he's still sore (?) I know for me (Wolf) it was a very humiliating process admitting that I like it, & then admitting it to Fox. So the best thing (depending on your relationship) is to just talk lots about it & ask what he likes. Maybe there's a certain element of it that inspires him (like it being public, being busted by a group, etc.) Again, it's very humiliating for the guy, so I would suggest discussing it in a sexual way or at a time of arousal -to make it easier for him to admit it. It's awesome that you have such a desire for it, & we wish you all the best!!!