Has femdom/BB changed some of your relationships?

[JLex]

Has engaging in femdom/BB/TD changed the way you've interacted with partners outside well-delineated sessions? If so, in what way(s)? 

[JLex]

Did it change how she views you, either positively or negatively? 

It that she only time she used it to her advantage?

If you had sex whenever she busted you, was it also a way for her to signal that she'd like sex? In what sorts of situations did she do it randomly or by surprise?

[JLex]

Sounds like you have a great kink relationship. 

What kinds of requests/orders on what to do or get her does she have?

What kind of challenges does she come up with?

[JLex]

My ex introduced me to femdom. I wasn't quite able to keep the dynamic purely inside the bedroom but he didn't seem to mind. What you said about requests jumped out at me because I kinda trained him.

The first time, I offhandedly mentioned that I could really go for some gelato right now .He didn't get the hint to go and get me some gelato. So, I snapkicked him in the nuts to teach him that if I say I could go for some gelato, his choice is to walk to and from the gelato place with or without aching balls. From that point onward, I had to be careful if I said anything good about anything because he would bring it to me. 

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

I would have to say that yeah it has a little bit. Not anything extream. I have no problem busting him in public, not full session or anything. If he gets touchy feeling or is rubber necking alot a will bust him, kiss him and then walk away and tell him to hurry up. Trick is to act like nobody else exists and dont make eye contact with anybody as you do lol. Somedays we are a normal couple, other days he is my plaything and me his goddess, others i am his dominatrix. Sometiems i am the victim ;) Bedroom activity is daily and if someone isn't getting off, they are getting tortured. 

[volcan51]

gf goes for the balls all the time, and i mean all the time, surprise+ public she loves it.

Of course i drop. hard and easy, she can drop me with even a slap. dont need to say a surprise full force kick (she give something close sometimes.) drop me minutes while i have all those painful reactions.

Despite that im quite in charge, like a king whatever i say we do it, she prefers it that way, because she told me its tired to be in charge of everything. If i could outline the change would be we both horny all time together its unavoidable, I grope her, she grabs me, and that it is all in fire, its truly hard to behave properly sometimes.

[JLex]

Do you think it's affected how she sees you? Outside sex, especially. 

How has your girlfriend gone for your balls by surprise or in public?

[volcan51]

I never went with her on the manly route i have to admit. Im kind of complex, unsure but bold rough but caring. So being busted its probably dont discount my attractive to her. Also i bust her way harder than she bust me

She has a gift fir surprise busting, like second i dont watch she kicks or knee me

hardly see it coming but she is actually nice so dont drop so often.