Finding your ballbusting partner

[K.]

Hey everyone!

As I have recently started my journey into the wonderful world of ballbusting, I am currently struggling with finding a partner that wants to stick around for more than a one-off session. I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few women who, although they never did it before, were willing to indulge my kink, if compensated properly.

I don’t have issues with paying someone for the deed, but so far they all ghosted me after they got paid. Even though I explain that I hope to find someone that is willing to meet on a monthly basis (which they claim to reciprocate), they completely vanish after, leaving me to start over the whole process of finding someone again. It's particularly frustrating when the last words I heard from most of these women is : I can't wait to bust your balls again! with a big smile on their face.

Out of curiosity, does anyone else face the same issue?

[Ron G]

While they may have intended on repeat visits, maybe life changed or even their mind changed. It happens a lot. But that's probably why they haven't been back. Maybe it's just a thing where you have to keep trying.

I have paid for it once and both of us didn't contact the other for a second round. Even though she clearly enjoyed it. Her response to me telling her my sac was black and blue the next day was, "Love it!" We talked about getting together again but neither of us did anything about it. We had fun, but we didn't really click. 

I have had women who stuck around for multiple "sessions", but it was because we were friends (or more) and our relationship started out that way. I didn't intend on being around them to get them to kick me in the nuts. It just kinda happened that I brought up the fact that I had fetishes early on and they thought it was fun. In fact, all the times I told someone I was starting a relationship with about BB, I've only had 1 bad reaction. And that was, "Oh honey, once I'm done with you, you won't care about that stuff anymore." I guess she thought she could cure me with sex. Obviously, that relationship didn't last long.

I guess my point is, maybe try looking for a friend or a girlfriend who'll bust you, but don't base the relationship on ballbusting alone. If they wanna hang out with you because they genuinely enjoy your company and you theirs, then they'll be around a lot more and you'll be keeping in touch. I'll be writing a blog post about one of those friends in the next couple days. Maybe the details will help shed light on things a little more.