❤ FAREWELL from MALLORY ❤

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Dear KITG,

The day has finally come... after six long years, I'm leaving the site.

Donation time has always been excruciatingly frustrating, but this

year has been exceptionally bad: I can never get answers from 

Dvhour because he is never around. I've been carrying the site for

four years now, doing 95% of the work and all I ask of Dvhour is for

him to handle the whole donation headache, but every year, I can

never reach him to get answers on how we're doing. We were supposed

to talk this weekend to figure out what to do with the site from here,

but as usual, he was not around and it is IMPOSSIBLE to get an answer

out of him. I have reached the end of my patience.

Even worse, only 56 people donated this year, with only 5 days left

before the deadline. 56 out of 8000 members!! Every year, we get

at least 100 loyal members to keep this site going, and even that is

pathetic, considering we have 8000 members. But, this...this is an

all-time low. I can't tell you how disheartening this feels to me. With

all the time and energy I put into this place, it is beyond insulting.

If only 56 people think this site, and my work, is not even worth a few

dollars, why the fuck are we here?? This tells me that it is time to go.

Whether or not you make the deadline, I am done here. I want to thank

all who donated the past five years and kept us online. I want to thank

all who shared their wonderful videos and pictures and stories because

we couldn't exist without your contributions. I want to thank the core

of the community, the dedicated who made this site a family...it was

you that I stayed for to make this site a HOME. And as utterly frustrated 

as I am right now with him, I want to thank Dvhour for trusting me to

run the site...I had some wonderful experiences because of it, and there

may be a couple more in the works ;) But most of all, I want to thank all

of you who shared your experiences and stories and lives...your hearts

and souls, with me...I stayed this long because of you.

(see: http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/looks-like-goodbye)

(see: http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/ask-mallory)

I will leave this open for a week, until I leave. Please feel free to leave

any hellos or goodbyes, any final thoughts, good or bad...or say hi on

chat. I don't want this to be a somber last week...I want to celebrate 

it, so I will be answering any last questions and sharing my thoughts on

blogs, discussions, stories, etc. Let's make it a happy final week :)

~ Mallory ~

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Gracias, España! All the best to you as well...and I will miss it here too :)

[JackD]

Just to say thanks, your presence and commitment have been much appreciated. I, like most kitg members, have little idea of what goes on behind the scenes or is required to keep the site up, and I have donated more in hour than in expectation of saving the site year after year... But we have saved it before...

Guys, the KITG Mallory Years may be over, but that doesn't mean that the site is dead, let's throw in a few bucks and try to CPR this site back from the brink again!!

[Mallory {The Boss}]

That's the spirit, JackD...rally the troops :) Heyyy, you still haven't told us about

your bb adventures in Vegas...8000 members, but a good Admin remembers ;)

[T.J.]

thank you dude) but all problem that some of people like more MM ballbusting (like me), and i can donate it, but only if it well be MM too. Right now trere is most FM BB, and trehe is a lot of FM BB in a web....

[Mallory {The Boss}]

True, it is mostly f/m bb...but we've always welcomed the whole bb rainbow, TJ :)

[blackdog]

Hey Mallory

Sorry to hear that you are leaving. No chance you might change your mind?

If not, will you be available somewhere else to chat? xx

Blackdog (have donated twice - MT)

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Unless something prettyyy monumental happens, I don't see me changing my mind.

I take it personally that only 56 people think this site is worth a few dollars to keep

it online...that hurt :/ There's still 5 days to help Dvhour though...and thank you

muchly for your double donation, blackdog! I'll be sure to get your name up on the list :)

[dhim]

Well, thanks for supporting me and my BB/CB animations all the years!

Maybe I'll see you around the internet, but if not, good luck to you :)

I really appreciate your efforts!  *high five*

[Mallory {The Boss}]

DHIM, I've always loved your brilliant animations! so witty and funny as fuck :D

Thanks so much for sharing your talents with us... *high five* back atcha :)

[Mallory {The Boss}]

I'll miss your videos most of all, Akuma Matata :)

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Good by Mallory, such a lose. I hope every thing works out for you. Love to you guys and KITG, I will miss it.

[Mallory {The Boss}]

This post is about me leaving - there's still hope for the site! Four days left to donate and

help Dvhour out, peeps! Thanks Melinda...glad you and your hubby share some fun bb :)