❤ FAREWELL from MALLORY ❤

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Dear KITG,

The day has finally come... after six long years, I'm leaving the site.

Donation time has always been excruciatingly frustrating, but this

year has been exceptionally bad: I can never get answers from 

Dvhour because he is never around. I've been carrying the site for

four years now, doing 95% of the work and all I ask of Dvhour is for

him to handle the whole donation headache, but every year, I can

never reach him to get answers on how we're doing. We were supposed

to talk this weekend to figure out what to do with the site from here,

but as usual, he was not around and it is IMPOSSIBLE to get an answer

out of him. I have reached the end of my patience.

Even worse, only 56 people donated this year, with only 5 days left

before the deadline. 56 out of 8000 members!! Every year, we get

at least 100 loyal members to keep this site going, and even that is

pathetic, considering we have 8000 members. But, this...this is an

all-time low. I can't tell you how disheartening this feels to me. With

all the time and energy I put into this place, it is beyond insulting.

If only 56 people think this site, and my work, is not even worth a few

dollars, why the fuck are we here?? This tells me that it is time to go.

Whether or not you make the deadline, I am done here. I want to thank

all who donated the past five years and kept us online. I want to thank

all who shared their wonderful videos and pictures and stories because

we couldn't exist without your contributions. I want to thank the core

of the community, the dedicated who made this site a family...it was

you that I stayed for to make this site a HOME. And as utterly frustrated 

as I am right now with him, I want to thank Dvhour for trusting me to

run the site...I had some wonderful experiences because of it, and there

may be a couple more in the works ;) But most of all, I want to thank all

of you who shared your experiences and stories and lives...your hearts

and souls, with me...I stayed this long because of you.

(see: http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/looks-like-goodbye)

(see: http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/ask-mallory)

I will leave this open for a week, until I leave. Please feel free to leave

any hellos or goodbyes, any final thoughts, good or bad...or say hi on

chat. I don't want this to be a somber last week...I want to celebrate 

it, so I will be answering any last questions and sharing my thoughts on

blogs, discussions, stories, etc. Let's make it a happy final week :)

~ Mallory ~

[Ibrahim Moizoos]

I suppose I had already discussed my thoughts with you before, but it doesn't hurt to tie any loose ends. Put plainly, I've had lots of fun here in the past year and a half. I've talked to some interesting people. If the goal of this site was to provide such an experience to even the mere casual member, then that has been achieved. Furthermore, you know very well how much everyone (and especially me personally) value your presence here and the work you've done. I am ashamed I am not in a position to be contributing funds to this site. So really, even though your presence in my life is distant, as you are an admin of a site I joined on a whim, your incredible patience and friendly personality have definitely made an impact on me. I may have mentioned this before, but I could say you personally mean a lot to me and everyone else here. Certainly, you are the core of what seems to be a tight family here. All the sappy talk aside, you've done incredible work and what you have done was not in vain. I could definitely see myself enjoying working with you, and regardless of the circumstances, I know Dvhour shares this sentiment. Shit, I've really typed a lot...haha well goodbye, thank you, and best wishes from ya man Zoos :D

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Zoos, your kind words warm my heart...it's been a tough day, but this makes me feel better.

It's pretty amazing that I could leave that much of an impact on you - I'm just a girl who runs

a friendly little fet site :) It's important what you touched on...some of us were really lucky

making connections here, in a small way and even sometimes in a big real-life way. Thanks for

reminding me of that. And I know Dvhour still loves me... thanks for reminding me of that too :)

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

Why would you say such things publicly? True I'm not around but I come daily. I did give you a full update several days ago. Mal you give the impression that I'm unreasonable and unreachable but in reality every time I was home you were out and when you were out I was home. I have been conversing with you so please do not mislead people with your frustration with me in public. Once you say something publicly its there so essentially you DECLARED WAR ON ME AND KITG!!!!! 

UNGUARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ooh this part is me being silly. I'm not personally battling you or even looking at you as my enemy. I will always adore you but you should realize that this is not a comfy spot you are leaving me in with the site... its like riot inciting the way you wrote this as if I have control over the money and I'm going to skip town with it and that is not the case. I'm busy and I don't have time for the site but I'm here and its unfair that you air all this in public and then say I'm bouncing. That's between you and me, what that does is get people like Broyce to say things like he did... don't incite people thats just not fair and not right my little cute gal pal. 

[Mallory {The Boss}]

I never everrrr said you were bouncing... what.the.fuck. I didn't even say anything bad, I only

said the truth...I want to leave with TRUTH. And no war, just love ♥ Now...back to meeee :D

[inlove4pain]

Hello, Ms Mallory, sorry to hear that you are leaving, hopefully you can stay a member, wish you all the luck! ! ! Be good, well at least be great at your love, play,

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Hello Mr inlove4pain, thanks but I don't want to be a member...I wanted to be Admin of a super-thriving

comfy community that would be happy to lend support to keep us online and allow me to continue to

run this ship. Support has to work both ways in a family. Thank you for the well wishes...be well, as well :)

[0jubysmgc2prd]

Am I the only one who's thinking this? Instead of venting your frustration like this, KICK HIM IN THE BALLS and put this behind you :D

I'm not trying to convince you to stay, that's for you to decide, but it's sad the way you're leaving.

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Now whyyy would I REWARD him with a good ball-kicking, Garat?? :)

[Mallory {The Boss}]

You're welcome, Billy Bob...best wishes to you as well :)

[Paul Baker]

Thank you both Mallory and Dvhour for all the effort in creating this site. It truly was the only cheerful and cozy bb site I've come across. I'm sorry that the community has been so ungrateful, and slow to act, which is why I hope that we still have a chance to do our part in keeping this site running. Here's 3 possible plans we could try to keep this site up, I'd like to know what you think, and what we can do if there's time left.

1. Approve more admins out of 8,000 of us, the two of you must know some loyal members you would trust with running at least some parts of the site like approving membership and videos.

2. A thermometer tracker of the required funds on the homepage (maybe installed by one of your new admins :). While I did donate, I didn't understand how dire our situation was. I feel that the majority of the community didn't know what the requirement was, or how close we were.

3. Membership fee. While it goes against the sentiment of the site, I'd rather make this small compromise, than not exist. To me its the shared content, and interaction between us on this site that makes it a free community, more so than the fact that it was free to join. Even a $1 a year would solve this donation drive frustration, take the burden off the 100-56 donors, and maybe even repay the admins, support the other artists in the community, or purchase content that could be added to the site.

I hope these plans aren't just too little too late -Paul

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Paul, I LOVE your positive proactive nature! Your detailed suggestions are all great. My thoughts:

1) Running the site alone was not an issue for me. It took some practice, but I got good at it :) 

2) The thermometer tracker would require constant updating, so that would have to be done

by DV, but he doesn't have the time to keep monitoring it - good idea though. One day, maybe.

3) We came very close a couple years ago to charging a small membership fee...you're right, it

would help in many way. However, the logistics were too much to deal with, and we really did

want to keep it a free site. And neither of us wanted tacky and annoying ads :/

I am very proud of the fact that we succeeded in making this a cozy & cheerful fetish site :) The

community was certainly slow to act this year, as you stated...but it's NOT too late to help out

because the deadline is September 20th. Again, it is extremely hurtful to me that only 56 people 

thought this site was actually worth a few dollars to save it...but again, it's not too late to help

Dvhour keep this site online. Thank you for your donation and helpful suggestions Paul :)

[Beaten13]

You will be misssed. I hope, in the end, after some time has passed, you'll reconsider. Anyway, all the best.