Eliza's Interview

[Eliza D.]

I've been reading through some of the interview posts, and they looked like fun so i decided to make my own. So go ahead and ask me anything! :)

[Kate Giver Reciever]

One of our favs is superheros RPG, if I am the villain or he is and we swap it around. we can really go into that other world.

[volcan51]

Cool he is now your little bitch. You Eliza really know how to exploit a weakness.

Did you do something to making him to obey you?

How did he take his "low stamina"

[Eliza D.]

It was just a gradual progression over time. I took more and more control and started bossing him around more, and busting his balls on my terms. Then we got into orgasm denial which made him really desperate to please me all the time and it just kept growing from there. 

The low stamina is interesting. He says he misses being able to fuck me, but also that his orgasms are much more powerful. He also said he thinks its pretty hot overall and I agree. Just the idea that he can't handle my pussy for more than a few seconds. Super hot and also fun to tease him about. We have talked about taking a break from the denial and getting his stamina back up, but not anytime soon :)

[Julia]

My main concern when doing ballbusting is safety. My partner always wants me to push his limits, and Im afraid to cause a lesion. How do you feel about that? Do you have any tips on how not to cause permanent damage?

[Eliza D.]

Saftey is very important, as we also like to push his limits. I'm not an expert so you may want to explore other resources for safety tips, but there are definitely things I try to avoid. I don't do many toe kicks and when I do I don't go as hard as normal. I never twist his balls either, or pull them too hard. And obviously shoes can be dangerous when kicking, but they are a lot of fun if you do it safely. And a safeword is a must.

Honestly, I've found my BF's balls to be pretty resilient. Slight swelling and redness is pretty common, but I've only bruised him on a few occasions. But every pair is different so you have to figure out what works for you. What kind of things do you do to him, and how hard do you normally go?

[Eliza D.]

For us ballbusting is mostly foreplay. Usually I will bust him until he gives up or i decide I'm done, then he will go down on me, and if he's lucky he will get a teasing handjob. Sometimes when he's going down and not doing a good job I will give him a couple kicks for a little motivation, but thats about it as far as combining the two.

He is into shoes/boots but not licking them, he just likes the idea of getting kicked by different kinds of footwear. Like when we are shopping he will make comments about how he would like to be kicked by this or that pair of shoes. Some of them really do look like they were designed to kick a guy in the balls ha.

For me kicking his balls is more enjoyable. He prefers it in the balls too. I never really kick his dick on purpose but I have missed and got him on accident quite a few times. I do slap his dick a lot though. Its not as fun as ballbusting but I like to watch his dick flop around when I slap it. I'll also whip it with the riding crop if he comes without permission. He isn't in to dick pain like he is ball pain. He says when I slap his dick it is just a stinging pain and he doesn't get the good feeling he does after I bust his balls. Thats why I use whipping his dick as a punishment.

[MadisonGuy]

Have you thought about tying his orgasm denial to your orgasms?  You could require him to bring you to orgasm 5 times for every time he gets to orgasm.

[Eliza D.]

We did something similar but it was a whole points system, not just orgasms. He would get points for doing things for me, and I would take points away for bad behavior or if I just felt like it. When he got to a certain amount of points he would get to cum.

[volcan51]

Hi Eliza

have you kick him in saldals or flip flops?

are exactly the same than kicking barefoot?

[Eliza D.]

I have, and its pretty similar to barefoot for the most part. They dont really add anything to the impact the way boots or shoes do, although a couple pairs that i have do give my feet some protection. Sometimes my foot stings after too much barefoot kicking.

[Allen Witts]

For the stinging issue, having him wear thin underwear or something similar helps a lot.  There's a lot less smacking, which should make it easier on you.  Alternatively... just squeeze while he squirms, or step on him a bit :D

[Eliza D.]

I know but I like kicking naked balls! I like your second suggestion better, although I usually just switch to knees if my foot starts hurting.