Ballbusting and fantasy

[giordy]

Lately I was wondering, do you think most ppl that are into ballbusting are into it as a fantasy?

I noticed there r many members here but it is not easy to meet someone for a bb meeting, and thinking about it myself I'd think a nice idea to meet a girl from this site to bust me, but at the same time I'd be really worried to be busted by a stranger, since she could really hurt me. It's really different when you do it with a friend or a girlfriend, or maybe even someone you barely know but in a safe environment (ex. with other friends).

So I'd like to know sincerely how many of the guys here would really ( and i mean really, for real) let a girl you barely know to have a free kick at ur goods, not knowing how hard and how she'll do it.

And for the girls, I'd like to know if it how many would find acceptable something like this, and if yes in what way you'd do it, if maybe u'd take advantage of the situation and hurt the guy or go easy just for a lil fun.

[Lorren]

I wouldn't meet a guy off the net I didn't know for anything, much less a fetish encounter, on my own. That's like a cardinal rule of the internet for girls. It's just inviting trouble.

Personally, the kind of bb I like isn't the dom/sub/subjugation type, so that discounts "meeting up for a session" or such. This doesn't mean I 'don't really like bb' or 'it's only about the fantasy' or anything like that. The appeal for me is that they DON'T want me to do it, or at least don't know that it's coming.

So the short answer is no, I wouldn't meet anyone here to kick their balls.

[giordy]

Well I remember a thread on here that highlighted the fact most women like bb in the way u described; and actually i agree it's far more interesting when it's done unexpectedly/unwanted since it's more natural.
And about meeting a real person from the web I know it's not really a safe thing, especially for a woman.

[0xblq8kg1vbxg]

I mainly come on here because I am more of a sadist than a masochist-- I prefer seeing images/videos/etc. of it than actually doing it. On either end.

[Athlete87]

I wouldn't worry about really getting hurt. Even if a girl was to be a bitch and try to kick you full on, as long as you are paying attention to her it wouldn't be hard to block/close your legs up and dampen it or completely block it. I only say this because I have had my gf bust me and even with me WANTING to be busted, it seemed like half the time I flinched and closed my legs up or moved just a bit and didn't get anything from it. As long as you see it coming you could always move if it looks like she's really winding up/swinging hard. Of course knees are a different story.

I have a gf but when I was single I wouldn't have minded having a girl bust me. My one condition would be that they were really into ballbusting or at least were into having a sexual encounter with me and didn't mind getting into such a fetish so it wouldn't be an embarrassing situation. I have seen guys who have paid to have a girl bust them or coaxed them into doing it just for the sake of humor but I don't know if i'd want to subject myself to that kind of embarrassment of having a girl think "eww, this weird guy wanted me to kick him in the balls". May be a self esteem issue on my part but whatever. I just don't like being that 'creepy guy' lol.

I may be the male exception to BB though. I WANT a girl to bb me unexpectedly, because SHE wants to do it. Not saying that I want my GF to kick me in the balls in an argument or anything, but in bed or playing around i'd love a girl to bust me randomly, unexpectedly. I don't like the idea of standing up, asking a girl to kick me and staging the whole thing. I'd rather her just kick me once when im not paying attention, watch me go down then taunt me about it versus these videos where you see a guy standing in the middle of the room, hands behind his back, taking kick after kick.

[36sddh5hd65bq]

Yeah, I am in to the fantasy of it, as well as the real (moderate) thing. I would never meet a random girl. Or at least I would spend time getting to know her first.

-Justin