Ball-Busting: Discouraging the Great Taboo

[Tender Boy]

A theme that comes up regularly in discussions here on the site is that many of us have felt actively discouraged by other people about ballbusting.

I don't mean that the discouragement is necessarily given with any idea that the fetish exists, though sometimes it may be.  It's more a discouragement of the physical act of striking testicles (or liking it) in any manner, whether fetish or not.

I'm thinking of examples like when young girls are taught about a boy's testicles, among other things they may be told that this is a good place to kick a boy if you need real self-defense, but also that you should "never hurt a boy there" for any other reason and the subject is talked about in a hush-hush, slightly awkward and embarrassed manner.  

(Side thought: Sometimes I wonder if that just makes boys' balls that much more interesting to some girls because any time a person is told to stay away from a forbidden fruit, you know they just want to go out and get it!)

And boys are often taught - more through experience than words - that "everyone else" thinks getting hit in the balls is nothing but pain and agony so who would ever want to experience something like that?  You'd have to be totally crazy, right?  And if you ever do get hit in the balls, the pain will be so overwhelming that from a single kick in the nuts you will collapse, fall unconscious, certainly never be able to have children, and maybe die, just tragically expire there right on the spot.  (LOL)

So we boys grow up feeling discouraged by society because our interest in having our balls kicked must mean that we're crazy, self-destructive masochists.

And from what I've been told by a helpful woman here on the site, girls grow up feeling discouraged by society because their interest in kicking boys in the balls must mean that the girl is just so mean and cruel because who would ever want to give a boy pain, especially there?  Gosh, you must be pure evil.

Oh, something must be so, so wrong with all of us girls and boys.  Society has told us so.  :)

So here's my question: how has society told you or shown you that you "shouldn't" be interested in ball-busting?

Did your parents or teachers give you a talking to when you were young?  Did you ever open up the subject with a boyfriend or gilfriend and get a negative reaction?  Did you ever tell your friends about it and receive a blank, stupefied stare in return?  Did anyone ever say that you're a bad person because you like ballbusting?

I know it's a mixed message too, because consider how many countless movies and TV shows have scenes of men being hit in the balls, and it's usually presented as comedy, or a powerful way to fight, or as a titillating symbol of female power in the battle-of-the-sexes when a woman busts a man and brings him to his knees.  These are subtly positive messages about ballbusting and everyone in the theater seems to like it -- they just don't necessarily admit it later.  :)  

So we have the "official" thoughts from society discouraging ball busting, yet it's fairly clear that many people have at least a curiosity about it even if they wouldn't necessarily act on it.  I believe that discouragement versus people's innate curiosity is an ongoing thing.

So I'm wondering what your experiences have been like.  Please share them here.  Your thoughts are welcome!

[Anthony]

My parents told me it was OK to be hit in the balls! And showed my sister HOW on my plump low hangers.

I kicked/hit/squeezed guys balls too. It was "normal!"

Who knows...

[Darlene Freed]

 I think society makes it known in many ways that kicking a man in the balls for anything other than self-defense is wrong. And further more, that wanting to do that, liking it and especially enjoying the results of ballbusting.  Is cruel and makes a woman sadistic a pervert or both. The few times I did bring up the subject with a close friend. I was told that any one that does that for entertainment was definately weird, sick and or evil.  But the day I realized there were men out there who wanted to be kicked in the balls I got very excited. And secretly made up my mind to find one of those men. So far I've found two of them, and I although I started out cautious, shy and very nervous. I grow to love ballbusting more and more with every kick I deliver. Just tonight I enjoyed a pretty good BB session, each time he dropped I had an ear to ear smile on my face. I was so turned on.

[charles stone]

When I was growing up, letting someone hit me in the nuts was definitely seen as weird to anyone else. There was this girl that liked to put on heels and bust me (I guess that's where it all started for me)! We were both seen as being weird for liking that. Even today I get the same looks. I have one friend that I can talk to about this (the others I wouldn't even try to mention it) but he's not into it, so when I tell him about one of my sessions, he gives me that puzzled look and says "you are a sick motherf***er!