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ha yeah i bet this title got all of your attention but theres something i want to discuss about this site ......see guys theres more to a woman than just sex appeal and bb they have feeling i havent seen any of u ask how their day was and it makes em sad.....it really does like u can talk about bb obviously but not 24/7 and i personally think thats why theres so litlle girls here.......no one really puts a thought to there feelings :(.
have you watched the episodes of 'Friends', u see joey, you see him, he always asks everybody 'how u doing' ALL THE TIME, in any place o time it was ' hey how u doing',but not once, not once has anybody asked how he was feeling, makes u sad doesnt it? well thats what i feel like atm( im a happy person btw :) ).
oh and i also believe in the profiles they should be an extra section of 'additional info about yourself' so people don't get the wrong ideas about the woman on this site( u hear that dvour).
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lol i saw alot of badapples but yh your right about everything but when i say additional info i mean things like hobby's or characteristics not anything that could expose your identity, and plus it would be optional the additional info, i really think its should be on here because woman don't want to always talk about bb u know but WE HAVE NO IDEA of there character or interest and the typical man introduces themselves in two ways
1. talk about bb (likely to get ignored to seeming obseesive)
2. a hello ( in some occasions may seem to be as a boring person)
alslo ive looked on this website and thers complaints of 'deadnesss of converstations', that could be eliminated if we then talked about something related to there personal info and thus lead to a great convo, which could lead to other topic or familarities between the two people that was not listed in the additional info, leading to a great trustworthy friendship, or even a relationship
its hard to explain but we are a very small community and this site should be so bigger but because we are so samll we should be like a family and should be making this our little own facebook(even though we all do have friends in reallife) and should really be having a great time with each other if bb related or not
and plus whats the harm of an extra optional section ey?
oh and before anyone asks the title is pure bs its just to get ur attention lol
Well, I'm all for discussion, but this is much ado about nothing. The basis of this argument is not
even true. Since this website went up nearly three years ago, only a handful of women have left
and of those, only two stated that it became too much for them. TWO. Whenever a female has a
complaint about such matters, Dvhour and I immediately investigate and take action, which can
be anything from a warning to a banning. So, I know not where you are getting your information,
Mr. London18, but it is wayyy off base. Worse still, is the fact that you were forming gross mis-
conceptions about our website after being a member all of TWO DAYS.
I appreciate your concern for the female members of this site, Mr. London18--I truly do, but
believe me when I tell you that weeding out the assholes here is of most importance to me
and Dvhour. This is our house and we welcome all who have an interest in bb/cb, on whatever
level--however, it is absolutely PARAMOUNT to us to keep the peace here to make it a comfor-
table place for all who wish to join our community. RESPECT is the golden rule here--for fellow
members, as well as the Admins. It puzzles me when new members come into our house and
immediately begin to stir shit up--which, unfortunately, seems to be a pattern as of late. I mean
really, do people come into your houses and try to tell you all how to run your home?? Don't
get me wrong, DV and I appreciate constructive criticism and welcome suggestions...but really
peeps, don't fucking insult us as soon as we let you in the damn door. This, by the way, is not
just directed at you London18--as I've stated, this has been an unwelcome pattern lately. Oh,
but I am sooo happy to inform you that you do indeed have that extra space available to you
on your profile page! It is just beneath the questionaire: click "+Add Text" and you can add
(PG-rated) photos/videos and all of the text your little heart desires! :)
Goalie, you made some great points and thank you for defending KITG and the excellent work
of the Admins here ;) Thanks also to a.w and Pinballs for sharing your thoughts with our new
friend, London18...he is new here and is still learning his way around, so let's give him a chance
because I do believe (and hope) his intentions are good. L18, you also made a great point about
how most women here want to talk about everything, not just bb. I have formed some lovely
friendships here doing just that. And I'm sure most women here do enjoy an intelligent conver-
sation on the fetish. When I do run into a guy just looking to get off, I tell him straight away to
move on cuz I ain't here to get anybody off--and I often express my disappointment about how
they are not even capable of holding an actual conversation on the fetish. If a wank is all you're
looking for, go read the profiles and interviews or watch some videos and wank yourself silly.
Lastly, let's check the politics at the door. That's a subject that often and easily divides, and
we are all about uniting--not dividing. RESPECT...always. Now, let us all get back to enjoying
this wonderful site :)
thanky you for that and lmao at when u started swearing i thought u were being rude :D and i neva saw this is extra section? or is it just for me? anyway thank you and i dont see any other people staring up shit but maybe i would of got my point across better if the influence from other people havent been. and sorry about the tittle :D or mis-conduct thing u menntioned just as being a man on my first few days i saw men asking woman questions that may of seemed Innocent to the girl but ( I REALLY NEVA WANTED TO SAY WANKING BUT EY :D) wanking material to the guy and i think that should be saved for the interview( or other sources) which u agreeded on :D also thank you for understanding my actions ive always love this site for the people having intelligent convos but when i joined up i saw the opposite but now i dont see any at all ( a few but less) hmmmm anyway dont put me up on ur famous hall of shame with that 14 year old guy lmao and i like the name L18 :D ummmm whatelse u wrote alot so its hard to remember .......anyway its all solved now im starting to slowly like the site more and more.....oh and my intentions are good or i would of raised HELL i can do that :D and last thing i wasnt trying to stir up shit :( but i hope that doesnt seem what it looks like im not a trouble maker.....well i am sometimes but not this time lol so expect more constructive critism :D but in like a more friendly way instead of a misleading title(u hva eto admit it worked though) i really love this site and i want it to the best that people outside the bb fetish would want to try and beg it with us lol it should be so much bigger and more people on here ist ashame but we are a rare group i suppose.
oh and because ur site admin how come that video never went up? its on youtube so its not breaking any copyright? or was it cos it wasnt personally mine? or is it still waiting approval ? and there was no nudity aswell sooo... u know nno nudity and from youtube so i thought that would be perfect to share as i thought alot of u might of not seen it yet seeing as i found the link in facebook.
Mallory was spot on about everything in her posting, so you won't get a mouthful from me.
@London18blackguy I see that you are enthusiastic about the site and that you really value and respect women on this site. I looooove that we see eye to eye on that… I echo much of your sentiment but I'm sorry that you are terribly misinformed about what you think the site is. I do recognize what you were trying to say, it was an admirable attempt but Diplomacy 101… its just a matter of how you said it!!! i have some Big brotherly advice… never never never generalize a post like this by including ALL guys… you will offend many and thats not just here its every online community you are in. My task for you is to explore the site more talk to more of the women and ask them how they feel about the site and form your thoughts from there. I'm very happy you like it here. I thank A.W. and Goalie for their points and defending the site.
Anyway I got to catch a flight to Toronto in less than 10 hours so i'm literally not in this discussion. But as Mallory and i both preach… RESPECT RESPECT RESPECT no matter what your differences of opinion are.